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Okay so I’ve got this secret and I don’t mind writing it here because well you’ll never tell, I guess… because you have NO idea who I am really. So, I’ll just come out and say it, I love kinky sex toys. LOVE THEM!!! Like, my world did not exist before I found my anal dildo, my cock rings my, prostate stimulator, or good lord in heaven you knows I loves my beads. And here we are in a place where I cannot only share that, but I can find new ones!!! Heh heh… I love it. Okay a little background on me, is that I am a straight male, mid twenties, pretty good looking if I do say so myself, I have a great job and a very healthy sex life. I am currently single but for the same reasons any guy my age is single, butt plug envy. I KID, seriously though I have been reading some of the other posts and am SO happy to have found a place where I can talk about the time I choked myself out with a fairly large gage plug in my bum and was found by my older brother naked and on the floor with a belt around my neck, my dick in my hand, and of course the plug you know where. (He still won’t ask me to pass him anything at the Thanksgiving table). Anyways, I just wanted to check in to let my freak flag fly high and say hello. Go forth good people and make with the kinky sex!

If you or your partner enjoy or fantasize about bringing another person into your bedroom, consider getting a realistic dildo.  Realistic cocks mimic the feel of skin while offering a similar sensation to a real dick.  They are built to be soft yet firm, and just flexible enough to allow for movement.  Some realistic dildos, such as the Ultra Realistic Cock, even recreate the veins and folds of a real hard cock.

Imagine his pleasure at watching you put another cock in your mouth while he’s fucking you from behind.  Silicone dildos just don’t give the same sense of oral stimulation.  For many, the colors of plastic dildos are a turn-off.  Meant to be charming and funny, bright colors and rabbits may be too comical for some to take seriously.  Realistic cocks come in many skin-toned colors, taking the pretty -in-pink out of the scenario.

Realistic cocks can also be good stand-ins when your sex partner is away and you really want the feel of him, not rubber.  Find a cock that looks just like your man, and you’ll never be lonely when he’s gone!   

Double dongs, also referred to as double dildos, have a fun variety of uses.  Many are flexible enough to be turned into a U-shape and used for simultaneous anal and vaginal stimulation.  But just think of the configurations a couple or group can come up with!

For two women, the possible positions are many.  Both on your backs, pumping against each other with the double dildo in both partners can be both pleasurable and bouncy fun.  There’s no need to stay on your backs though ladies.  Consider putting one partner on her back with the other partner on top, in the saddle position.  Bend the double dong so that both partners are able to enjoy it simultaneously. 

But let’s not limit the use of double dongs to masturbation and lesbians.  For heterosexual couples, the double dildo can be inserted into the woman while the man sucks on the other end.  Of course, this also opens doors to simultaneous anal stimulation, both on your backs using each other for leverage, or ass to ass on your knees.  Consider simultaneous anal stimulation while the woman rides the man on top (just make sure your double dong is nice and long, like all 18 inches of the Xtra Sweet Double Dong).  The double dildo can also masquerade as a third partner for falacio, many men fantasize about watching their sex partner suck a huge cock while he fucks her.  Make his dream a reality.

Almost every porno featuring women includes scenes with a woman standing over a huge dildo fucking herself with it with a look of naughty pleasure on her face.  Want to show your partner just how playful you can be in the boudoir?  Steal a scene from a great porno and try out a suction-cup dildo.

Suction-cup dildos are basically just dildos with built-in suction cups on the bottom, like Carmen’s Candy Funcock.  They can be used like regular dildos, but the suction-cup feature adds tons of fun to the game.  To use the suction-cup, simply wet it (using your tongue will delight your partner), and apply to a surface such as a hard floor.  If you do not have a hard floor accessible, a cutting board or baking sheet from the kitchen can be a good alternative.  For fun on your back, the side of a wooden dresser will allow good suction-cup holding, and offers the benefit of a good place to put your feet for leverage.   

Once the dildo is properly secured, encourage your partner to get you good and wet, using any pleasurable means.  Then, position yourself standing over the dildo and carefully lower yourself over it.  Watch your partner’s face for excited pleasure while you bounce up and down, fucking that stabilized cock.  Hers eyes will light up as she realizes just how much fun you can be!

For men and women alike, sexual prowess is often an important part of self-image.  Many people who are slow to cum may notice annoyance and a feeling of loss in their partners, as the partner may feel that he is not big enough, interesting enough, or doing a good enough job of pleasuring the slow-cummer.  All this can lead to tension and a breakdown of the sexual relationship. 

Dildos can often be used to help a slow-cummer along.  Self-exploration and masturbation using a dildo may help a person figure out just where the elusive G-spot is hiding, as well as just what she likes.  Unfortunately, many sex partners may feel threatened by bringing a dildo into the love bed, as they may feel intimated having another dick get their partner off.

Open communication is key to convincing your man that the dildo is a helpful solution to an insidious problem.  Start by creating a comfortable, relaxing, and inviting environment.  Turn the lights down low and light some candles.  Lock the door.  If a feeling of security is difficult to achieve, turn on some music at a pleasing volume, or use a fan or white-noise machine to drown out any outside noises.

Try putting him in charge of the dildo and your pleasure.  Lie down on the bed (or floor, couch, hood of the car), and whisper in his ear that you are all his.  Encourage him to think of the dildo as purely an extension of himself.  Talk dirty to get his mind reeling.  Let him play with your body freely while you lie back and enjoy being pleasured.  With an environment that encourages relaxation and you as his very own plaything, it won’t be long before he regularly asks “Where’s your toy?”

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For many women, reaching climax can be very difficult.  Some women go their entire lives without ever really cumming.  The female G-spot is an elusive creature that often must be carefully tracked in order to be trapped in its native habitat. 

Many people may be surprised to learn that the G-spot is often easiest reached through the anus.  While the use of a finger is a good start, a dildo is often more effective for anal stimulation.  Of course, a good dildo can be used either in front or in the rear.  Many women enjoy dual stimulation, so the double dildo, like the Lucky Lady Dual Stimulator, may be a good investment.

To stimulate the anus with a dildo, start with water-based lubricant.  Lubricant application does not have to be business-like and uncomfortable.  Instead, invite your partner to play and relax and enjoy this moment to investigate each other’s bodies.  Often a little sex lubricant application will lead to more extensive finger play.  When you are ready to move things along, simply insert the dildo into the anus.  If your partner is doing this, communication is key.  Slow and steady insertion and pumping should stimulate the G-spot in no time.  Don’t be afraid of long dildos, like the 10-inch Tantus G-Force Wand.  The extra length can act like a handle, allowing you to ride your partner while still enjoying anal stimulation.       

Not everyone may be aware that safer sex rules apply all the time, not only for vaginal or anal sex. So whether you are having dildo sex with your one true love, sharing your favorite toys with a few friends, or pleasuring yourself with wild abandon, make sure you keep your dildos clean.

The best way to minimize the transmission of STDs via a dildo is to use a condom on it just as you would on a cock. Remember to use a new condom before moving on to the next orifice (pussy to ass, ass to pussy, and especially from one person to another). If you are using a double dongs for lesbian sex, place a condom on each end and avoid direct pussy-to-pussy contact as not to exchange bodily fluids. Use water-based lubes, which are condom-safe.

Keep your dildos clean by washing them after every use. A little warm, soapy water will do the trick. Antibacterial soap is ideal. You can even put your silicone or glass toys in the dishwasher (Just be sure a less intimate friend doesn’t decide to be helpful in the kitchen only to get a big surprise.)! You can also boil silicone and glass for up to three minutes or wash with a bleach solution.

Follow these simple guidelines of cleanliness, and your dildo sex will be safe and healthy sex!

Is bigger really better for a lot of women? I recently bought the Real Feel Beginner’s dildo and I am loving it. I guess I am pretty tight, so I have had a bit of trouble with guys with big cocks. A nice 3 and a half inch dildo is exactly right for me. I am still relatively new to the world of sex toys, so who knows? Maybe I’ll upgrade to a 5 incher before too long.

Not enjoying a large dick has made me a bit of a Nervous Nellie about doing it the first time with a guy. It’s great when we’re a “good fit.” But I have an enthusiastic love for masturbation regardless, and it doesn’t take a giant dildo to do the trick for me. I spend some time goin’ at it, so I am pretty well versed in how to angle for my G-spot with my hard little purple vibe or my short and stout flesh tone dong.

I don’t mind posting here, but I am still a little too shy about asking any women I know to share their dildo secrets. One day, I’d like to know the truth about what other women like.

I’m worried about my marriage. My wife doesn’t seem to feel anything anymore when I touch her. I hear her at night though, sometimes when I come home from work and she’s already in bed. I work late. I guess I can tell you, that I’m a cop. I worry that it’s all gotten too boring for her. I’ve just been doing the same things for too long perhaps? I’m sorry, I was telling you what I hear, well I know she has a dildo, she would never talk about it but I know she keeps it in her underwear drawer, which oddly enough is where I keep my gun; well my gun in my underwear drawer that is, not hers. But yes, I know she has a dildo, and I hear her at night when I come home quietly, moaning like she use to when we were kids. I love that sound but I only ever hear it now, when she’s alone. I have been thinking for, probably, years now, that I want to get her something to spice things up, some sex toys, or adult toys, and well I am so new to this that I was hoping to get some help, both for what to get her, and how to bring it up and talk to her about it. I thank any of you for taking the time to read this, and God bless.

I was talking with an artist friend of mine two nights ago. The conversation turned to her ex-boyfriend who had hooked up with a man. I could, of course, understand her fury about his dishonesty and surprise that his cheating heart fell for a dude, but then she went on ranting about how she would never use a dildo on him. “I don’t go there,” she kept saying. I didn’t understand that part of her freak out. Dildos are great fun, woman to man, or in any other combination, I say.

She sounded worried that using a dildo meant that she would prefer to have a penis, and that it would be an insult to nature. Whenever I strap on a dildo, it is about enjoying the moment with a great toy. It makes me feel playful and sexy. I love feeling like a harness and a big dildo are part of my body for the moment, and I am still glad to be all woman when I’m through.

The best thing about the feeling of it for me is that combination of the masculine thrust for my partner and the base pressing against my clit in a sweet, steady rhythm. Usually, a good old-fashioned female orgasm is not too far away. Anyway, I hope my friend will forget that last guy soon. Even better, maybe once her upset is gone, she’ll revisit the joy of a good dildo for its own sake.