Archive for September, 2008

Multiple Partners in a Monogamous World

Tuesday, September 30th, 2008

Though it can be easy to feel out of step with the standard mores of society if you have ever thought about anything other than the monogamous “norm,” rest assured that there are many people in the world who are living fully alternative lifestyles. Still many more are ready and willing to take a walk on the wild side, but haven’t…yet.

More and more often these days, you are likely to be acquainted with someone who considers her or himself polyamorous, or open to having more than one responsible romantic relationship concurrently. You may be curious because you have been invited to the kinky neighbors’ swinging party. Sometimes something within you just tells you it’s time to become more expansive. Whether you are interested in trying something new as a first time swinger, becoming a part of a long-term, loving poly relationship, or in any other form of expressing your sexuality, know that the keywords are honesty, safety, and communication.

Talk to your partner or partners. Rule #1 is that everyone involved should know what you’re up to. If, for example, you and your spouse are opening your relationship, be sure to talk A LOT. By developing trust, any new partner in the mix is more likely to become a friend rather than a threat. Should you decide to attend a sex party, discuss boundaries with your partners, and learn the swinging etiquette of the environment. Remember that latex is your friend; safer sex with all your partners ensures that you all stay healthy. Spend time developing trust, and then enjoy your voyage into the deep, rewarding world of multiple partners.

Shameful Monotaskers

Monday, September 8th, 2008

I was thinking the other day, which can bring no good to anyone, I know. But I was watching The Food Network’s Alton Brown on “Good Eats” and I realized that he has a special disdain in the kitchen for what he calls “Mono-taskers”, like electric Apple peelers, or well any big bulky kitchen item that is only designed to serve one purpose and otherwise just takes up space. It got me thinking that I have got a LOT of sex toys, some are quite respectable multi-taskers, for instance my anal vibrator, also double as a clit vibe. And let’s face it; dildos can be stuck in just about whichever hole you like. But things like my butterfly stimulator or my ball gag, well they are only good for the one thing, and they take up a relatively significant amount of space in my bedside table. Even my anal beads could, if need be, double as a necklace…well a bracelet, if pressed to find a second purpose, but those mono-taskers, are beginning to make me feel like an inefficient sex toy user.

Ass Tease

Monday, September 8th, 2008

I rode her asshole HARD last night. I threatened her with it for weeks, and she laughingly played into it, teasing me with pictures from her cell phone. She would sneak off into a public bathroom stall and take out her little pocket vibe, masturbating with one hand and snapping photos with the other. One night while she was traveling I recognized the unmistakable logo of a Starbucks in the periphery of the image she sent. The image coincidentally had her bent over in front of the bathroom mirror with beads in her ass and a thick dildo obviously railing at her pussy.

She got home from her trip and I immediately snatched her up to my place where I had all the necessary electric sex toys and some old school DIY sex toys laid out like a surgeon’s tools. I played with her tits, and her perpetually wet pussy for a bit to prime her, then with a little spit and smile I slid my finger into her asshole and worked it for a bit until I felt she was loose enough to take me. I stood her up and bent her over. Stripped her skirt without warning and squeezed a generous helping of lube on her little star. I entered slowly, as a gentleman should, but once I felt the tension go away I FUCKED that tiny asshole HARD until I saw the glint of a tear roll down her cheek. That’s when I poured my load inside her ass and let out a roar. I pulled out and watched my cum seep from her gaping hole, then walked to the bathroom to clean myself up. I tossed her a towel, again, as a gentleman should. I shut the light and closed the door so she could recoop in private. And I noticed a bit of blood dripping down from her rectum between her spread legs, and thought to myself, “That’ll teach her to tease ME.”

In cognito MX

Monday, September 8th, 2008

This is not some fantasy blog, or some concept of anyone’s imagination, this is my life. I got “discovered” when I was very young, too young maybe, I don’t know. I was snatched up into the limelight and exposed to an unreal world of pretty people and an opulent norm that cannot, and should not be maintained. I am a writer, actress and model recognized at first for my talent (I hope) and then my appearance, but I don’t know that I was ready for any of it. I am taking a hiatus from the biz for a bit in MX, and can’t write any of this on my public blog, or MySpace, because well it will make some trade paper or get back to my agent, or a studio and then I’m fucked.

What’s the deal? Well, I have secrets like anyone and sometimes I guess I just need a confessor. So forgive me father, but I’m into kinky sex and for what I do, it’s got to be a secret. I like sex toys, I mean the best sex toys, I mean sex toys you would buy at a hardware store. I know a hundred and one ways to use a vibrator. I love anonymous sex, and group sex. Gang bangs THRILL me, though I haven’t been able to safely throw one as yet, and if given the chance I would love to spend a weekend with countless sexy women in lesbian orgy.

There now I feel better, feels good just to have typed it out, even if no-one ever reads it.


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