Party ideas
Most clubs are pretty good about being good guests. People that don’t follow swinging etiquette tend to not get invited to the next party. It is not uncommon for the people hosting the party to request that each guest bring some type of food or drink to share. I always make sure to put it out there that I’d appreciate some help with the food and I usually end up with way more than I know what to do with.
When I’ve had parties at my house as host I always walk guests through when they come in the door. I make it a point to put the designated coat room at the far end of the house so I can walk them through and give them the layout without being obvious about what I’m doing. I always have one sex free room, usually downstairs (first time swingers will LOVE you for this. It’s a great way to keep people from feeling pressured or uncomfortable) and I point out the one sort of out of the way room that is an “anything goes” group sex room. Then I let them know that the rooms upstairs are for people to pair off in.
Don’t stress and enjoy your party! Honestly, the swingers I know are better party guests than my regular friends. It’s a friendly laid back atmosphere and people don’t usually get plastered and make messes since they want to be on top of their sexual game in case they meet someone interesting!