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Hey maybe you can help me with this. I’m a guy, and my new girlfriend is just introducing me to her arsenal of sex toys. She’s got dildos and vibrators out the wazoo (and sometimes in it, LOL), and that’s all good. The only problem is, I’m a little shy about using them on her. She likes to show me how she plays with her dongs on her own, but she also asks me to use one on her from time to time. I’m a little new at tings with her, so I don’t want to disappoint.

Is there a certain technique I can practice to get used to how to use a sex toy on another person? (I have a few butt plugs and a “pet pussy” that I am very good at using on myself.) I want to make sure I can get some G-spot and clitoral stimulation going for her, while not causing pain or any discomfort. She has a couple of big dongs, and I don’t want to go to far. She will talk to me about what she likes, but she’s not as vocal as I wish. Any advice is welcome- thanks.

I’ve never tried anything like a pocket pussy. Would you guys say a vibrating one is superior to a non-vibrator, or what? What should I look for when shopping?

I’m going to chime in and agree with everyone who is saying ‘Buy a rabbit’. I can’t imagine the sex toy novice that won’t be won over by that toy. Get her a rabbit and she will definitely keep a warm place for you in her heart forever. I personally like the Fukuoko Twist-n-shout Rabbit. I’ll be honest, I do have rabbit style vibrators that are a little quieter than this one (if your lady has roommates maybe something to keep in mind?) but it makes up for the slightly louder noise by being the single best sex toy I own.

It’s water proof, which opens up an entire new world of aquatic play for both of you. It is incredibly durable. Mine gets a lot of play time and I have never had a problem with it. I have had a lot of other vibrators (rabbit vibrators and non-rabbits) that I didn’t use nearly as often they ended up wearing out on me. And it is phthalate free, which is something I’m very concerned about when it comes to something I put inside my body.