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I’m going to chime in with my 2 cents…buy a rabbit! I can’t imagine the sex toy novice that won’t be won over by that toy. Get her a rabbit and she will definitely keep a warm place for you in her heart forever. I personally like the Fukuoko Twist-n-shout Rabbit. I’ll be honest, I do have rabbit style vibrators that are a little quieter than this one (if your lady has roommates maybe something to keep in mind?) but it makes up for the slightly louder noise by being the single best sex toy I own.

It’s water proof, which opens up an entire new world of aquatic play for both of you. It is incredibly durable. Mine gets a lot of play time and I have never had a problem with it. I have had a lot of other vibrators (rabbit vibrators and non-rabbits) that I didn’t use nearly as often they ended up wearing out on me. And it is phthalate free, which is something I’m very concerned about when it comes to something I put inside my body.

Ladies (and gents too!), I really just have to share. I work from home and get no exercise. A friend had recommended that I get an exercise ball and use it to sit on while I’m working at my computer. She swears by hers and claims that she has much better posture and stronger abdominal muscles from sitting on a giant ball all day.

I decided to try it out and had seen the Sexerciseball on the Tabu website a couple months ago when I was shopping for a new rabbit vibe. So I thought, well my friend has stronger abs and better posture from her exercise ball– maybe the Sexerciseball will do all that for me and a little more! I bought this baby a few weeks ago, and OMG, I love it!

I have it set up at my desk so I can use it as a chair like my friend suggested– it’s totally discreet and nobody who has seen it knows about its little secret! But on those long, lonely evenings when my husband is working late at the office and I’m working late at home (we don’t have kids), I screw in either my rabbit vibe attachment, or my Micka butt plug attachment and suddenly I’m happy to be working at my desk! I’m looking forward to getting the other attachments and have already asked for them for Christmas. I know people are always posting on here asking about what is good, and I really recommend the Sexerciseball.

Dildos and vibrators need regular cleaning between every use in order to maintain the materials and prevent bacterial growth. But many sex toys don’t come with care instructions when you buy them — so just how do you best care for your private friends?

For both dildos and vibrators, cleaning by hand under hot water after every use is very important. You should usa an antibacterial soap– most liquid soaps will do the trick. Make sure you dry them well with a clean towel before putting them away. Leaving them wet in the case or drawer can encourage bacterial growth.

For silicone dildos that do not use batteries, you can boil them for a few minutes in a large pot. Do not use the boiling method for anything that uses batteries, such as vibrators, as submerging the electronic and mechanical parts in water will ruin your toys. The Sugar Sak Antibacterial Toy Bag offers safe storage for your sex toys, while inhibiting bacterial, yeast, and mold growth– a must-have accessory to keep your pleasure investments clean and safe.

If you enjoy sharing your sex toys with your partner, it is recommended that you clean them before sharing. If running to the sink to wash toys with soap and water kills the mood, Afterglow antibacterial wipes will clean and refresh your toys, and kill bacteria. Afterglow toy wipes are a great way to help keep your toys clean when you just want to roll over and go to sleep after sex, too. Just keep the wipes handy and wipe down your toys, then you can wash them with soap and water the next day.

Eventually, even the best-made sex toys will begin to degrade and need replacing. When you wash your toys is the perfect time to do inspections. If the rubber or silicone has cracks, the toy should be tossed and replaced. Cracks and crevices in the material make great breeding grounds for bacteria – and nobody wants to see the doctor because they caught an infection from their sex toys.

Hey maybe you can help me with this. I’m a guy, and my new girlfriend is just introducing me to her arsenal of sex toys. She’s got dildos and vibrators out the wazoo (and sometimes in it, LOL), and that’s all good. The only problem is, I’m a little shy about using them on her. She likes to show me how she plays with her dongs on her own, but she also asks me to use one on her from time to time. I’m a little new at tings with her, so I don’t want to disappoint.

Is there a certain technique I can practice to get used to how to use a sex toy on another person? (I have a few butt plugs and a “pet pussy” that I am very good at using on myself.) I want to make sure I can get some G-spot and clitoral stimulation going for her, while not causing pain or any discomfort. She has a couple of big dongs, and I don’t want to go to far. She will talk to me about what she likes, but she’s not as vocal as I wish. Any advice is welcome- thanks.

I’m going to chime in and agree with everyone who is saying ‘Buy a rabbit’. I can’t imagine the sex toy novice that won’t be won over by that toy. Get her a rabbit and she will definitely keep a warm place for you in her heart forever. I personally like the Fukuoko Twist-n-shout Rabbit. I’ll be honest, I do have rabbit style vibrators that are a little quieter than this one (if your lady has roommates maybe something to keep in mind?) but it makes up for the slightly louder noise by being the single best sex toy I own.

It’s water proof, which opens up an entire new world of aquatic play for both of you. It is incredibly durable. Mine gets a lot of play time and I have never had a problem with it. I have had a lot of other vibrators (rabbit vibrators and non-rabbits) that I didn’t use nearly as often they ended up wearing out on me. And it is phthalate free, which is something I’m very concerned about when it comes to something I put inside my body.

There is no right or wrong way to buy sex toys, just like there are no right or wrong toys to buy. When it comes to sex toys opinion matters more than anything else, you are only limited by your imagination- and there are even sex toy games that can help you expand that! When it comes to buying sex toys for someone else, like a lover, a friend, or for a bachelor/Bachelorette party, it can be a little tougher to decide. We’re going to assume that if you are shopping for a sex toy for someone else that you are fairly intimate with them. So here are some things to keep in mind, or ask slyly before hand to get an idea of what is the best choice.

What materials do they like best? Are they looking for something that will feel the most like skin?

Are they fairly conservative, or do they like to get a little rough and wild?

Is this for them to use alone or with a partner (or two or three . . .)?

If you’re shopping for a lady, or a guy with a monogamous relationship, you should also try and figure out if they get off with clitoral stimulation, penetration or both.

A dildo or vibrator is usually a good choice when shopping for someone else. They can be pleasurable for both men and women. They aren’t “out there” enough to embarrass most people but are versatile enough the even experienced sex toy users can have fun with them. Best of all they come in a huge array of colors, sizes, and materials so you can really pick out something unique to that person.

If you are in charge of planning a bachelorette party and are planning to take your girl out for her last wild night, make sure everybody knows who the guest of honor is by dressing her for bachelorette success.

If you take your bachelorette to a dance club or bar, she’ll want everybody in the place to know that she’s the guest of honor. Make sure they do by having her wear a Bachelorette Party Veil. Help her entourage stand out too, with Flashing Dicky Boppers. To help her get through her last night out checklist, decorate your bachelorette’s sexy thigh with a Candy Garter. It’s sure to intrigue the single men.

To take her out in style, and ensure that plenty of hot guys worship her with free drinks, get your bachelorette a Bachelorette “Buy Me a Drink” Cami set. Pair this sexy set up with her slinkiest pants and sexiest shoes, and the guys will be lining up to worship her all night long.

We’re lucky today because we have quite a few options when it comes to where you can buy sex toys. Kinky sex toys are a way of life, something most couples own and enjoy together. You can usually buy sex toys pretty easily no matter where you live. Even smaller towns have a sex toy store or two and lately ‘passion parties’, where sex toys are explained and can be ordered, have seen a surge in popularity.

However, many people prefer to buy sex toys online. Sometimes people are a little embarrassed, even today, to walk into a sex toy store and ask a clerk for help. Many women, in particular, feel very uncomfortable doing this. Passion parties are great- if you know someone who is throwing one and if you are okay with friends and co-workers being privy to what sex toys you like to use.

Online you can browse for whatever kinky sex toy you like and it is anonymous. Online stores also usually have a wider selection and better prices. And if you choose to order your sex toys online your package is shipped to you in a plain wrapper, no obvious logos or company names. So, no need to worry what your local post office will think. No one will have any idea what you’re ordering.