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OMG, I saw something totally brutal last night. I love the sex parties my friends throw- we are totally sex positive and aren’t shy with each other in the least. I think it bonds our community together to make love together. But this one was different.

It was never like this before, but there were so many people into ass play there. At least four guys had their girlfriends or a new friend strap on a dildo and do them. Watching a woman strap on a nice dong and do a guy in the ass is hot enough, but a few of these people were pros! One guy insisted on a woman using a seriously giant dildo on him. It was pretty scary to think about even taking it vaginally. It was the first time she ever did use a strap-on on a guy, so she was nervous already, before the issue of the giant thing between her legs! Anyway, it looks like they both enjoyed it.

There was also a serious Wonder Woman who also loved it that way. I was busy getting fucked too, but we took a little break & we got an eyeful of what was happening. She kept getting bigger & bigger things up there – a couple of different dildos, a big anal vibrator, her boyfriend’s cock, and finally a fist
more than once!! This was extreme, people.

After my last relationship, I decided to take a break. For the next year, I decided I was through with the mind games of men. However, I was in no mood to deny myself the glorious pleasures of sexual enjoyment. In fact, I was intent upon discovering more sexual joy than any man had shown me. So thus was my quest— I set out to seek Mr. Good Dong.

My first stop was the “risqué” store I always passed when walking to work. I had never been in this particular place before, and I was mesmerized by the plethora of long, thin vibrators, short rubber vibrators, dongs that looked human, and even vibrating dongs that looked like they had rabbits attached. I was overwhelmed. After a second similar experience at another store a couple days later, I settled on surfing the internet where one can take one’s own sweet time to shop.

Being in the market to buy the perfect dildo was a bit like searching for the right boyfriend – it needed to be a good fit. After all, it was going to be my close companion. I would come home after work and peruse the web, sometimes getting pretty excited in the process. Finally, I saw “him.” “He” was called a cinnamon cyberskin cyber cock(!), but I immediately decided to call him Simon.

Simon is a good 7 inches, and feels just perfect inside me. We do it morning and night and he always hits the spot. Occasionally when I’m in a mischievous mood, I’ll tell the girls at work I have a hot date with Simon that night. They have no idea!

As most any Postal Service employee can tell you, a real sign of the current economic situation is that people are moving in together more and more. If you suddenly find yourself with a roommate, you might also suddenly find that your sex life is suffering. Many people fear that their roommates will hear their vibrators buzzing, and stop using them for fear of embarrassment. Well have no fear, quiet vibes are here!

Many ladies love their rabbit vibes, but the Jack Rabbit can be a bit too noisy when you’re trying to be discreet. When the roommate moves in, get yourself a Silicone Impulse Snow Bunny right away. Not only will you love the quiet motor, but the quality is exceptional, and speed options and rows of rotating will have you stifling moans.

Doc Johnson has G-Spot lovers covered in quiet with the discreet Silent Vibrations Pearl White G-Spotter. This little doozy packs a vibrating wallop with multiple speeds, and is so quiet the only give away will be the smile it puts on your face.

For personal play or partner play that is quiet, powerful, and designed to go anywhere, try the Impulse Bunny Arouser. It’s a bullet-style vibe that comes with a brilliant little rabbit sleeve. Designed to be used on the clitoris, or in any orifice, the Impulse Bunny is sure to please.

Dildos and vibrators need regular cleaning between every use in order to maintain the materials and prevent bacterial growth. But many sex toys don’t come with care instructions when you buy them — so just how do you best care for your private friends?

For both dildos and vibrators, cleaning by hand under hot water after every use is very important. You should usa an antibacterial soap– most liquid soaps will do the trick. Make sure you dry them well with a clean towel before putting them away. Leaving them wet in the case or drawer can encourage bacterial growth.

For silicone dildos that do not use batteries, you can boil them for a few minutes in a large pot. Do not use the boiling method for anything that uses batteries, such as vibrators, as submerging the electronic and mechanical parts in water will ruin your toys. The Sugar Sak Antibacterial Toy Bag offers safe storage for your sex toys, while inhibiting bacterial, yeast, and mold growth– a must-have accessory to keep your pleasure investments clean and safe.

If you enjoy sharing your sex toys with your partner, it is recommended that you clean them before sharing. If running to the sink to wash toys with soap and water kills the mood, Afterglow antibacterial wipes will clean and refresh your toys, and kill bacteria. Afterglow toy wipes are a great way to help keep your toys clean when you just want to roll over and go to sleep after sex, too. Just keep the wipes handy and wipe down your toys, then you can wash them with soap and water the next day.

Eventually, even the best-made sex toys will begin to degrade and need replacing. When you wash your toys is the perfect time to do inspections. If the rubber or silicone has cracks, the toy should be tossed and replaced. Cracks and crevices in the material make great breeding grounds for bacteria – and nobody wants to see the doctor because they caught an infection from their sex toys.

I had this problem with a cyberskin dildo and a silicone vibrator that were next to each other in a bedside drawer. I became really paranoid that it was because I hadn’t cleaned them properly and that something in the lube had broken them down. Then I started to wonder if maybe I hadn’t been doing a good cleaning job on my other vibrators and dildos. Yikes! As you can imagine I had a good couple of days of soaking and washing. I even went through my lingerie drawer and hand washed everything in the Perky Panties Lingerie Wash . . . okay, maybe that was just because I was in a dry spell and was hoping the pheromones would help me get lucky!

End result, after my cleaning fetish subsided, I started to think more about how I stored my toys. For a while after cleaning, I put them back in their original packages and tucked them away. But that took up a LOT of space and it was a little bit of a mood killer when I brought them out to play. Someone really needs to tell these sex toy companies that the cheesy stuff they put on the packaging might be great for a novelty gift at a Bachelorette party but it’s a little silly for us hardcore sex toy lovers. I have since switched to the Sugar Sak Anti-bacterial Toy Bag. I have a whole collection of them to keep my toys separate, they don’t take up any more room than the toys themselves, I like idea of the invisible antibacterial shield, and they come in a very girly pink that I don’t have any reason to be embarrassed about when I pull them out of the drawer.

You know, I’ve always wondered about the landfill question, too. I don’t even know how much of a vibrator would even be recyclable but I bet even if they are a lot of people just kind of hide them in their trash and dump them without bringing them into a recycling center. I try to be green in everything I do, so I’ve mainly stuck to glass dildos since they are more durable and are recyclable at the same time.

My personal favorite is the ‘24 Carat Gold Double Happiness’

(http://www.tabutoys.com/catalog/ProductDetails.asp?productid=4545&categoryid=3199) double dildo. I’ve never actually used it as a double dong for dual anal sex, but I like that it has the two sides. It makes it very easy to mix it up a little, like having two toys for the price of one. Also, I’ve added vibrating cock rings to it for an added buzz.

But knowing a few tips on how to fix a broken vibrator makes me much more interested in those again, too! Has anyone tried the Vibratex Thumbelina?

I’ve tried this one and I am definitely a big fan. I’ve always loved clitoral simulation better than being penetrated and I thought this was a really unique vibrator. I have always used the small bullet style vibrators, and liked them, but the Soft Touch blew them away completely. It felt very soft and natural and I thought it really did feel like being gently tongued. It had a much softer feel than my bullet vibrators and was definitely easier to direct to hit the right spot than some of the other larger vibrators I’ve tried, even ones meant for the clit.

If you’re going for clitoral stimulation and want something that will kind of mimic that oral sex sort of feeling, I also recommend the Butterfly Clitoral Pump. I was almost scared off by the word _pump_ but once I tried it I was hooked. It feels like being gently sucked and the little cup that fits over your clit is filled with ticklers that really get you going. And it even vibrates!

There is no place I like using my sex toys more than in the tub. Reclining in the bath tub I am in the perfect position to play with my adult toys. Whether you’re by yourself or with your partner there’s nothing more relaxing, or more titillating, after a long day at work!

If you’re wondering how to use sex toys in the bath the first thing to do is to make sure you’ve got the right toy. Not all sex toys are made to be waterproof- and even some that seem like they should be, aren’t. Even when I buy a sex toy that is specifically marked ‘waterproof’ I still test it out first by submerging it in a water filled sink and turning it on. This is also a good way to test the sound. You know how you’re always warned about being quiet if you have sex on the beach because of how sound travels over water? Well that goes for sex toys in the bath tub, too. I was very embarrassed one evening when I realized my normally quiet vibrator sounded much louder (me, too, while I’m being honest) when I used it for the first time in the bathtub. If you live with your partner this could be a good thing. If you’re living with roommates, probably not so much.

Another tip I’ve come across while learning how to use sex toys in the tub is that you still need to use lube. The water quickly removes the natural lubrication your body makes and a fun night of water play can end with you being sore the next day. Water-based lubes won’t do much for you when using your sex toys in the water, but any other lubricants will be just fine.

The masturbation- as- cheating issue runs deeper than the “sex should only be with one person”. Masturbation stems from a primal need to achieve sexual release, and doing that with your partner isn’t always an immediate option. Things get complicated when the tools used to achieve arousal without a human partner take on too much meaning for the masturbater, or when the masturbater loses interest in having sex with his or her partner, due to either overly high expectations, or simply having self-fulfilled to the point of not wanting to have real, interactive intercourse.

Spending too much time with a fantasy can alter the way a person perceives their reality. For example, if a woman spends all of her free time looking at beautiful houses far out of her financial reach, she may become so disgusted with her own house as to either take on too much financial responsibility in the act of purchasing a “nicer” house, or may stop properly maintaining the house she has because she feels that it will never as nice as the ones she lusts after. Similarly, a man who spends a lot of time masturbating to images of beautiful, skinny women like Jenna Jameson may stop finding his partner attractive. Fantasies are wonderful, but if we allow them to consume us, they change the way we view reality.

So the question becomes one of expectations of reality. You may perceive, or think, that your partner is mastubator a lot. The real question is– does it really effect you? Are you not getting the sexual attention you need? Does your partner suddenly think you need to lose weight, even though you’ve not gained an ounce in a decade and he never had a problem with your body before? Does he suddenly prefer blondes? Is he suddenly extremely flirtatious with other female friends, or is he suddenly interested in things that you aren’t comfortable with? If the answer is “yes”, then it’s time to address the situation. But nobody can really answer for another couple whether masturbation is cheating. It is probably a question that you and your partner will revisit over the long years of your life together. The point is, you need to think beyond the porn to how each of your actions is affecting the other person.

Shaving “down there” is not quite the same as shaving legs. The vaginal area is more prone to razor burn and irritation bumps than legs that get shaved frequently. Consider the bikini line area– the hair there usually grows coarser and more rapidly than leg hair. So, if you want to go “no more bush”, try using specialty products and some tips and tricks.

If you’ve never gone bare down there before, and would like some information on how it can change sex play, check out the “Dare to Bare” DVD. Real couples will show you how to use intimate shaving to transform your sexual experiences– so your lover will know what to do it once you’ve left it exposed!

Specialty products like Coochy Shave Cream are thicker and have more skin conditioners than the usual shaving cream. You should always use a fresh razor blade, to reduce skin irritation. Using a lanolin based product, like those used for treating diaper rash can also help reduce irritation. Petroleum salves, and even over the counter antibiotic ointments have been rumored to give a close intimate shave with no razor burn or irritated bumps. Remember, shaving creams are for external use only, and you should take your time and go slowly when shaving your intimate areas– loose skin cuts easily. With these tricks and tips, your landing strip should be ready for action!