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If you are nervous about how to use a vibrator, the key is to relax. Start by creating a peaceful, safe environment to pleasure yourself in. The bath or shower may be a great place for masturbation beginners. Lock the door. Dim the lights or light some candles—harsh overhead lighting is more likely to make you feel exposed.

Now lie down comfortably and clear your head. You might start by playing with your tits first, just to get your mind at ease and your body feeling sexy. A bit of finger-masturbation should get your juices flowing and your clitoris ready for serious pleasure. Using some water-based lubricant will help ensure a safe, comfortable experience.

When you’re ready, set your vibrator on the lowest setting. If you aren’t ready for insertion yet, use your vibrator to stimulate your clitoris and ass. Once you get excited and feel comfortable, insert the vibrator wherever it feels best. Now, turn up the controls, move it around, pump it in and out at your own comfort zone. Remember, masturbation with a vibrator can relieve stress and make you feel more whole and in control. Enjoy yourself. Take your time. When you’re done, remember to fully clean your vibrator with an anti-bacterial cleaner, and store in a dry place.

If you’re new to the use of sex toys and wonder what ways to use a vibrator to increase your pleasure, the answer is easy—however you want to! While vibrators advertise different uses, such as anal, G-spot, clitoris stimulator’s, there are no rules to what you can do with any specific vibrator.

Follow your own, or your partner’s lead with vibrator use. If you love having your outer ass tickled during anal, try using your jack rabbit vibrator for anal play. Bullet vibrators can be used for clitoral stimulation, or vaginal or anal play. Consider the Pixie Plus with Sleeved Bullet—that bullet can go anywhere, do anything you want it to.

And remember, vibrators don’t just have to be used in the lower regions. Realistic-looking vibrators can be a turn-on during oral play. Just imagine how hot your partner will get watching you give head to a realistic cock while he fucks you! It’s the easy way to bring a third party to the sex bed without fear of embarrassment or jealous feelings.

For many people, choosing a first vibrator can be a bit daunting. Knowing what you will enjoy and what may turn you off isn’t always an easy selection process. Then there’s the problem of what size to get! Relax. Luckily, there are many first vibrators to choose from.

Before buying your first vibrator, consider your previous sexual and masturbation experiences. What did you enjoy? Oral stimulation? Did you try anal? How big is your partner? Do you like to have your clit licked? Answering these questions beforehand will arm you with the knowledge you need to find your perfect first vibrator.

For first-time masturbators, consider getting a water-proof vibrator to use in the bath or shower. The hot water all over your body may make you more relaxed and adventurous. If you’re just starting out using a vibrator and are unsure what you will enjoy, consider something simple like the “Vibe Me” Petite Waterproof Vibe-luster.

If you know you love having your G-spot stimulated, consider the Silent Vibrations Pearl White G-Spotter as a beginner vibrator. G-spot vibrators make it easy to find the elusive G-spot, and tickle it till you cream.

If you love having your clit licked, consider the Vibratex Little Kiss vibrator. This rabbit-style vibrator will turn a vibrator beginner into vibrator lover!

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By now you may have heard the whispers, the gossip, the “You’ve got to get one!”s. The secret is out—rabbit vibrators are pleasure makers. It all started with the original Jack Rabbit, a funny-looking vibrator with a little rabbit stuck on the shaft for clitoral stimulation. But that’s not all these rampant rabbits offer. With multiple speeds and separate controls for the clit stimulator and the rotating shaft, these cute bunnies also offer G-spot stimulation by way of beads inside a fat part of the shaft, and rotating heads. These are the perfect all-around vibrators!

The pleasure-land of jack rabbit vibrators has now expanded, and we’re not just on Watership Downs anymore. Try the iVibe Rabbit Harness Strap-On to pleasure at leisure (guys, just think how you’ll outlast your partner using this strap-on on her). If rabbits really aren’t your style, consider The Beaver, or the Japanese Butterfly. If what you’re after is size and power and you don’t want to think of your vibrator as a sweet little friend, try the Vibratex Thundercloud on for size!

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For a bit of fun while you’re out and about, remote vibrators just can’t be beat. With remote control ranges up to 30 feet, imagine your partner’s excitement at controlling your pleasure at dinner parties and social functions—even the grocery store! Of course, if you’re running errands alone, remote control vibrators can make your errands a ton more fun!

Remote vibrators come with two basic options. Some are embedded in special panties for external clitoral stimulation any time, any where. Others, like the Remote Control Egg, are inserted into the vagina or rectum and worn with any of your favorite panties, from lacy thongs to your favorite, comfy ‘Granny Panties’.

Of course, you can carry the remote in your own pocket or purse, and keep full control yourself. But, imagine the feeling of sharing a sexy little secret with your partner while out at social gatherings. Imagine your favorite little black dress, high heels, and your remote control vibrator. Give your partner the multi-speed remote control and let him tease you (and himself) with it all evening long!

While the elusive G-spot can be hard to find and keep stimulated, vibrators offer an easy solution. If you are looking for a vibrator that will hit the G-spot quickly and easily, look for one that is long and curved. The Slimline Celebrity G, is a nice gentle G-spot stimulating vibrator with simple controls. If your G-spot craves more power, try Jenna’s Velvet G. Of course, if you want to extend your play and pleasure, G-spot vibrators can also be used to stimulate the clitoris externally.

Of course, there are many ways to use a G-spot vibe for women, but let’s not forget the wonders it will do for a man. Using a water-based lubricant, insert the G-spot vibe anally to stimulate the prostate. If your man is a nervous first-timer, use the G-spot vibe on yourself and show him how good it can be before letting him take his turn.

Like most women I first heard about the rabbit vibrator when it was on that episode of Sex and the City. I had played with plenty of sex toys at that point so I thought it was a little over the top that we were supposed to believe that Charlotte was so addicted to her rabbit vibrator that they had to have an intervention. C’mon! I thought. I mean, don’t get me wrong, I love my vibrator (okay, okay vibrators, I have more than one) but an intervention? Please!

But once I tried the rabbit vibrator myself I was totally hooked. I think it was the strongest orgasm of my life! Vibrators alone are really nothing compared to a dual action vibratory like the rabbit vibrator. I love being penetrated but really need clit stimulation also to really have a strong orgasm. The rabbit vibrator takes care of both nicely.

Once I tried a ‘basic’ rabbit vibrator model I moved on to a jack rabbit vibrator with more options. The one I have now has six different patterns of vibrations and a rotating head that I can’t get enough of! Now I can mix it up with one toy instead of buying three or four different ones. It’s even waterproof so I can use it in the bathtub.

Lots of people seem to think that vibrators are just for woman to use to pleasure themselves. Not true! They can also be used by men to pleasure themselves and their partners- and it doesn‘t matter if those partners are men or women either.

Men can run the vibrator up and down their cock to enjoy the vibrators motion the same as a woman using it to stimulate her clit. Many men also love the way the tip of the vibrator feels against their nipples. I once had a boyfriend who swore by cupping at slim gentle speed vibrator in his hand while jerking off. He’d even ask me to do it to him as part of our play. And, of course, men can insert the vibratory into their anus the same as a woman can slip it into her pussy.

Get inventive with your vibrator! It can not only take care of your needs when your alone but can also add to the experience with your partner. Many people who have been in long term relationships swear that vibrator play spices up their tired sex play and gives their relationships new life. There are so many shapes and uses for vibrators you’ll probably never stop running out of new ideas for how to use them.

It’s nice to have a lot of options but taking a look through any decent sex toy catalogue, website or store can be really overwhelming. Who knew there were so many possible size, shapes, colors, and kinds of vibrators? How do you know which is the right kind of vibrator for you?

The easiest way to narrow down our choices and get the right vibrator is to know your body. To say it a little more forwardly- what makes you cum? If you cum easily with penetration then you will probably want to look for a vibrator that is made of a soft, natural feeling material like silicone rubber. You might not even want a vibrator at all; a dildo could do the job nicely.

Most people though want their vibrator for external stimulation. You could be in this category if you only cum during oral sex. These vibrators usually work better if they are made of a harder plastic material so you can adjust how much pressure you give yourself without having the tip of the vibrator bend or give the way a soft silicone rubber vibrator does. There are also vibrators that are made to handle both. Now you can get penetration along with clitoral stimulation. This is known as a rabbit vibrator.

Once you experiment with a few vibrators you’ll probably end up owning a collection of them for different moods and situations. The vibrator you use when playing with your husband may not be the same one you use when you’re taking care of yourself!

A few years back someone gave a thong with a built in vibrator. I thought this remote control vibrator was simply a risqué gag gift and tossed them into my panty drawer, promptly forgetting about them. That is I forgot about them until I asked my boyfriend to dig through that drawer and find me a pair of stockings to wear to a dinner party. He didn’t find the stockings (of course) but he did find the remote control vibrator panties. (Also, of course. Don’t men have the amazing ability to track these things down.) I stammered a little, afraid he would think I actually used the vibrator panties, but as soon as I was done with my silly excuses he said just one thing:

“Wear them tonight. Please.”

He always tries to make it out like I’m the big prude in our relationship so I decided to give him a surprise and agree. Well, I ended up being surprised. I loved the remote vibrator! All night he’d randomly give me a little thrill and no one else at the party was the wiser. I have to say it was the best time out I’ve had in a long time. When we got home he asked me how many times I came and then said I owed him. The remote vibrator really spiced up our sex life that night. Now we’re totally addicted. I’ve even started wearing them at work!

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