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OMG, I saw something totally brutal last night. I love the sex parties my friends throw- we are totally sex positive and aren’t shy with each other in the least. I think it bonds our community together to make love together. But this one was different.

It was never like this before, but there were so many people into ass play there. At least four guys had their girlfriends or a new friend strap on a dildo and do them. Watching a woman strap on a nice dong and do a guy in the ass is hot enough, but a few of these people were pros! One guy insisted on a woman using a seriously giant dildo on him. It was pretty scary to think about even taking it vaginally. It was the first time she ever did use a strap-on on a guy, so she was nervous already, before the issue of the giant thing between her legs! Anyway, it looks like they both enjoyed it.

There was also a serious Wonder Woman who also loved it that way. I was busy getting fucked too, but we took a little break & we got an eyeful of what was happening. She kept getting bigger & bigger things up there – a couple of different dildos, a big anal vibrator, her boyfriend’s cock, and finally a fist
more than once!! This was extreme, people.

The Fun Factory Share Penetrator is a type of double dong that offers a way for both partners to be penetrated, hands-free. A great way to use it is for the woman to get on top, while the man lies prostrate. Insert the long end of the Share into the vagina, and the fatter end into the man’s rectum. This position also allows for the man’s penis to penetrate the woman’s ass. This position puts the woman very much in control and all the pleasure! Many users comment that the Share offers the added bonus of giving the woman quite a Kegel workout.

Another great position to use the Share with, is again, the man lying down, though this time with his legs dangling over the edge of the bed. The woman then stands at the bed. With the Share inserted into her vagina, the woman can then insert the other end of the Share into the man’s ass, and give him a good fucking without using a harness. Don’t forget the water-based lube!
If you are worried about bacteria or STD’s when using the share, simply put condoms on each end. Used with a good, water-based lube, the Share is fun and safe for many positions.

Ladies (and gents too!), I really just have to share. I work from home and get no exercise. A friend had recommended that I get an exercise ball and use it to sit on while I’m working at my computer. She swears by hers and claims that she has much better posture and stronger abdominal muscles from sitting on a giant ball all day.

I decided to try it out and had seen the Sexerciseball on the Tabu website a couple months ago when I was shopping for a new rabbit vibe. So I thought, well my friend has stronger abs and better posture from her exercise ball– maybe the Sexerciseball will do all that for me and a little more! I bought this baby a few weeks ago, and OMG, I love it!

I have it set up at my desk so I can use it as a chair like my friend suggested– it’s totally discreet and nobody who has seen it knows about its little secret! But on those long, lonely evenings when my husband is working late at the office and I’m working late at home (we don’t have kids), I screw in either my rabbit vibe attachment, or my Micka butt plug attachment and suddenly I’m happy to be working at my desk! I’m looking forward to getting the other attachments and have already asked for them for Christmas. I know people are always posting on here asking about what is good, and I really recommend the Sexerciseball.

I’ve actually done this quite a bit. My boyfriend has always had some kinky doctor/medical type of fantasies. We really mix it up. Sometimes he cross dresses as a nurse, sometimes I’m a patient, other times I’m the doctor. I think both of our favorites is a naughty receptionist scenario. For us the speculum is just one part of a larger overall fantasy that involves a lot of medical equipment. We also have some forceps types of things (great for gentle tugging and pulling), latex gloves, you name it.

We definitely use the speculum to ease the way for other anal sex toys and are working our way up to fisting. A lot of times he just leaves it in before going down on me. The pulsating throbbing feeling of coming combined with the hardness and inflexibility of the speculum is a really unique and pleasurable experience. It kind f gives you the same feeling as a butt plug without feeling as heavy or full.

Speculum play is great for non-anal play too! My bf uses it to open up my pussy and really get in there with his tongue and it’s awesome!

Once the honeymoon is over, it can be hard to keep the excitement in the bedroom. If your relationship is experiencing “bed-death”, revitalize your sex life by surprising your lover and reminding him of his bachelor days.

Start with a sexy costume, like a French-maid outfit, gypsy dance costume, or even just a feather boa. Before you show your man what you have and how you move it, you should practice with your dancing pole and outfit. It’s a good idea to practice alone and in front of a mirror, so you get comfortable with the equipment and figure out how to get the costume off easily.

Once you’ve practiced a few times, get ready for the big debut by setting the scene. Send your man out to run an errand, so you can prepare. If you are going with a maid’s outfit, get out the vacuum and some body oil. When he comes in the door, let him catch you cleaning your little pole and show him that you know how to um, _oil the furniture_so to speak.

Similarly, if you are going with a school girl outfit, let him find you studying–use a trick like hiding a dirty magazine in a book, so he’ll know you’ve been a naughty, naughty girl. Creating a fantasy will show him that you think he’s worth the effort, and have you both enjoying a second honeymoon from home.

I’ve been using anal toys for a few years and decided I was ready to move up to some of the ‘advanced’ (a.k.a. extreme, huge, large, giant, somewhat intimidating) anal sex toys. But when I got my extra large vibrator in the mail and saw just how big it really was I was already rethinking how ‘advanced’ I was. I checked the size when I ordered by seeing inches written out on a computer screen but actually holding a giant purple vibrator in your own hand are two completely different things. If I hadn’t already told my husband I’d ordered it and gotten him so geared up over it I probably would have packed it away unused.

Now that we’ve play tested it though I’m thinking twice about just keeping it around for a novelty thing to shock my friends. The vibrations didn’t do a lot for me; it was so thick I felt a much more subtle hum than I ever felt in any of my smaller anal toys. I definitely think an extreme giant vibrator works better as a big dildo than it does for the vibration effect.

But more than how it physically feels the extreme anal toys are more about the mental pleasure. I felt incredibly kinky and dirty having my husband use such an extreme toy on my ass. I’m not normally much of a voyeur but I loved watching him use this giant anal toy on me. Afterwards he kind of said the same to me. He told me he never felt like the star of his own porn movie before!

I was thinking the other day, which can bring no good to anyone, I know. But I was watching The Food Network’s Alton Brown on “Good Eats” and I realized that he has a special disdain in the kitchen for what he calls “Mono-taskers”, like electric Apple peelers, or well any big bulky kitchen item that is only designed to serve one purpose and otherwise just takes up space. It got me thinking that I have got a LOT of sex toys, some are quite respectable multi-taskers, for instance my anal vibrator, also double as a clit vibe. And let’s face it; dildos can be stuck in just about whichever hole you like. But things like my butterfly stimulator or my ball gag, well they are only good for the one thing, and they take up a relatively significant amount of space in my bedside table. Even my anal beads could, if need be, double as a necklace…well a bracelet, if pressed to find a second purpose, but those mono-taskers, are beginning to make me feel like an inefficient sex toy user.

Today during our lunch break a co-worker was telling us about a ‘passion party’ she went to the night before. She was really excited because she said that the woman who was throwing the party told them how to use sex toys like vibrators and anal plugs. I didn’t say anything because it was at work, and I definitely don’t want the reputation as being the employee with all the kinky sex toys, but I was so surprised that a grown woman felt like she needed to be told how to use sex toys.

Outside of basic safety issues, like not using electric sex toys in the water unless they are specifically made to be waterproof, I think people should open themselves up to using sex toys however they want. Sex toys don’t have just one use. A vibrator can be used so many different ways on both men and women I can’t even imagine how a hostess at a passion party could cover all the possible ways they can be used in one evening. My husband loves when I run my vibrator along his nipples- not a use someone who didn’t know how to use sex toys would probably think of.

Part of the fun of kinky toys is discovering new uses for them. Instead of telling people how to use sex toys we should be convincing them that there is no wrong way to use a sex toy.