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This is a general question for everyone...but it is probably directed more at Hank. The question I have is about getting a second erection during a love making session. Can you? Do you? What do you do?

Early in my sex days, getting a second, or even third, erection in a short period of time was no problem. As I got older, it was not as easy...until it got to the point where it seemed impossible. Then it became a mental block against getting a second one...mainly because I knew I wouldnt get to use it anyway...much less the first one!

Then along comes Dreamer. She loves sex...she loves my erections! And now I would love to have a second one in a relatively short period of time. I'm just wondering if any one has any secrects they would like to share to help get that second (or even third) one up.

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Hey Roadie good question, I think it mainly depend on 1, how much you are enjoying the lovemaking, 2, how much she is enjoying it and wants more than just one go around, and last but not least 3, how much you both want to do it and what you will do to get-er-done.l

With Charlie, she is very oral receptive.  She will go down on me for as long as she can and even has a few tricks that make me last a long while, a little squeeze here, alittle nibble there and it calms down the ole urge to blast off. Most times I am between her legs having my private time and it is nothing for me to make her climax at least 4 to 1 of mine.  Now not all of hers are the earth shattering, squirting across the room kind. Some can be as small as just a tightening of her legs around my head to mild ones that she will squirts just a small amount.  She is a woman that enjoys the taste of my sperm and loves the feeling of it blasting down her throat or on her face or breast, then she licks it  up like  a kitten with a bowl of cream.  While we both rest in each others arms catching our breath, our hands are continually touching and squeezing part of each others bodies.  I will play with her nipples, rub her clit, or just massage her ass,  along with kissing and nibbling of the body.  She will keep her hand around my cock slowly stroking it even tho it might be flaccid,  massage my ball sac, my ass and between kissing and nibbling on my nipples it take no time for me to get hard for the second round. 

This is when it can get really interesting.  She likes to ride on top facing me, this give her the option of either rocking back and forth once she gets me buried balls deep inside of her, or she can bounce up and down on my shaft to her hearts content. I mean while can have full access to playing with her breast and nipples pulling and pinching them the way she likes them to be handled. I can also play with her clit, rubbing and pulling on it which can bring her off in a second.  Sometimes she will turn around so that I can have access to her ass and play with it. Now she really likes this and most times will have a toy that she will want me to insert at this point to get her ready to have me take her up it.  It depends on how hard she rides me and squeezes her kegles as to wheather or not I have a second climax or not.  She will cum at least another 4 to 6 times at this point with at least 2 of them being major ones that cause her to completely collapse for a minute or two, but she make sure not to let me come out of her pussy and keeps  me hard by flexing her pussy muscles all the while. She has rode on top of me for up to 2 hours keeping me inside either hole and hard for the whole time. I might cum a second or even a third time but these are not anything in volume like the first one, but are enough that she tells me that she can feel it and when she does let me come out there is leakage each and every time.

After a session like this we both will sleep for a good 4 hours if not more, and more than once I have been awaken by her giving me head and it standing tall and we start all over again.  So to answer you question, yes there are others that have been able to have more than a 20 minute love making session but it takes both partners and some practice to get-er-done right.

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Roadie: if this is time for true confession I may not be the one to ask. The first time is great at sixty-seven almost sixty-eight, but the second time usually needs some help from my friend. Where it used to take almost no time at all for a "second round," now I need around a half hour and a lot of tactile stimulation. Going down on me works but I still need that initial break. Now if you are using that little blue pill all bets are off and we're ready to go. And my wife's usual reaction is to Viagra is, "Good lord, put that thing away." Hank
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Roadie:
Since the advent of Viagra my hearing has gone to hell, my eye sight now requires a white cane with a red tip but I'm good to go now to the point where my poor tired honey says, "Put that damn thing away." Hank
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LMAO Hank...my hearing involves "what?" as a verb...I get my prescription glasses from the local Coca-Cola bottler...and Dreamer says "How old are you again???'

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Roadie: as long as it stays hard tell her not to worry about how old you are. Hank
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Sorry, I pushed the wrong button. Damn computer! HHH
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My Man is only 50 (only!) But, maybe once a week (we make love at least 7 to 10 times a week) he'll get a second wind, so to speak. (usually if he comes first and he watches me and helps me get off.)  Always a bonus, as I could go all day, or all night if given a chance, He's the one who either falls asleep or has to "get up and get things done." Sometimes I wish he was one of those "Sunday is all day sex day" guys, but he's too damn ADHD for that.

When he was younger, damn.....boys in their 20s are amazing when it comes to "reloading."

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Dont remind us about 'when we were in our 20's' P'Gell...lmao  Think I may do things a little different than The Man. I always want Dreamer to get off at least once before proceeding to the next step...whatever it may be...her again...and again (she has had 5 orgasms before I have had my first). I am never the one that falls asleep first (ok...sometimes I am).

Our problem now with having an all day sex day is her 23 year old nosey son that now lives with us...bummer...

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Roadie: Send nosey to the local cat house and you can all get laid. HHH
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Roadie, I misspoke, I didn't mean he "usually" gets off first, Far from it, he's a firm believer in "Ladies First" but sometimes, due to the damn perimenopause, it either takes me a very long time, or I don't at all, (sniff, cry) so sometimes he comes first, and then "gets to" watch me get off, while helping.

Yeah, I'm not crazy about the occasional falling asleep. But, I'm getting better at seeing it coming, (usually precipitated by just a few too many drinks) and suggesting a back rub instead. No reason to get me all worked up, and then have him check out before I get what I need.


Most of the time, he's very gentlemanly (at least in the way that he'll wait for me)  Last night I had about 20 before he got to his one. Nearly 2 hours of bliss,  Followed by a quickie first thing after Bath this morning......*sigh* I still can't see straight.......


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 Last night I had about 20 before he got to his one. Nearly 2 hours of bliss


Good grief lady!  Any way you can bottle some of whatever you have and sell it to me? My wife can't orgasm at all any more.
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Did she before? If she did then something changed and I would talk to a professional about that; either a good Gynecologist or a sexual therapist. Depending on where you live that might be a problem in itself because you don't usually find them in places like Mayberry RFD. When a woman gets to that point she probably doesn't have much incentive to want to play. I knew a gal like that in the early eighties and she had become literally asexual and it was very sad. Is it that she can't reach orgasm or just through sexual intercourse? I would ask her because that might be a hint as to the root of the problem. HHH
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Oh yes, she used to be able to orgasm (like 5 or 6 years ago) and it would be extremely rare that she would not.
(She definetly was one of those clit stimulation only orgasms types).  The problem is a few of the 14 or so medications she is on for heart related issues, back problems, and depression. I don't know if she has discussed it with her various doctors or not.
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[quote author=P Gell link=topic=1983.msg10298#msg10298 date=1270056874] Last night I had about 20 before he got to his one. Nearly 2 hours of bliss


Good grief lady!  Any way you can bottle some of whatever you have and sell it to me? My wife can't orgasm at all any more.


Oh, studley,. I'm sorry. It is not uncommon for those of us in perimenopause to have problems orgasming.

I have had problems, recently and The Man and I resolved to do ANYTHING to find a solution. The doctor gave me Estrogen and Viagra, (the Viagra isn't covered by insurance, and is too expensive for the mild boost it did give me the one time we used it, but the Estrogen helps some)

Like Nina Hartley (we talk about her a lot, don't we? I LOVE Nina.) I need VERY intense stimulation AND an electric Vibrator to come nowadays. I used to have a hair trigger orgasm. It took very little effort, then about 10 or 12 years ago, I began to have multiples on a regular basis,  THAT. along with the ability to hair trigger orgasm was HEAVEN. For a while.

THEN about  a year or so ago, orgasm became elusive. I was crushed, I cried myself to sleep more often than I could count. My Man was so upset, I could just see how sad he was, he's try SO hard, and I was right there, in the verge and couldn't go over the edge. For a while, less intense vibrators, like Fun Factory vibrators would help, now we just basically use them as dildos, because, as many women in perimenopause, my sensitivity decreased even more.

We found the solution in A/C Vibrators. The two most common are the Wahl 7 in 1 and the Hitachi Magic Wand. http://www.tabutoys.com/product/Hitachi_Magic_Wand  He gets me right to the precipice, and then we take over with the "Mixmaster" as we call it, while he fingers me, and kisses me etc, and I usually come pretty easily (although (occasionally I still have problems) Then as soon as I start to come, he dives South of the Border again, and I can usually have 2 or 3 right then, and many more as we continue to make love. If I come last, then he'll stick with me, because I will just keep having "aftershocks" until I am done. I prefer to come in the MIDDLE of sex, close to the beginning. I am SO much more relieved since we discovered the A/C vibrators. Sex is so important to our lives and I was MISERABLE when the problem started. It's better for both of us, knowing that most of the time, if I need to, I will have orgasms. There were a few really unhappy months there, but we worked it out.  If I can get that FIRST orgasm (which is a bitch to get, but always worth it) then it's a Free Ride the rest of the way. A LOT of perimenopausal women are like this. The first one is hard to obtain, then it's easy to have more.

I don't know what I would do without our A/C vibrator. My Man knows how much I love sex, and although it can be "pleasurable" without coming, I really prefer to come. In fact, I need to. If I fall below 5 or 6 orgasmic events a week, I get irritable and crabby and generally impossible to live with.  He bought me my first sex toy, many years ago, and is not threatened by the A/C vibe. I KNOW he's prefer to "do it himself" but it isn't his fault, and he gets me as far as I can go (farther than I can get myself BY myself, that's for sure) and then a few minutes with the A/C vibe and things are perfect!

PRO. is there a way I can post a link to a Wahl 7 in 1? I know you guys don't carry it, yet, but I linked to the Hitachi on Tabu and just want to help Studley's wife so much? Is there a way to do it without breaking the rules?

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