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Tabu Toypro

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I'm of the opinion that no sex is bad sex. In other words, there is no bad sex. Some sessions have just proven to be mind-blowing, full-body fantastic. And others, well, maybe we should have just gone to sleep.

But still, if you're in the middle of a session where you really aren't feeling it, do you just go with it to get it over and done, or do you make adjustments in your position or grab more lube or whip out a toy?

What constitutes bad sex to you? Have you ever given up in the middle of it?


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Bad sex is when one party isn't excited. It's completely unmotivated.

I understand wanting to make your partner happy but it's just so frustrating.

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What constitutes bad sex to you? Have you ever given up in the middle of it?


I agree with the quote below. If one party is just not into it, it can be less satisfying than masturbating.
Maybe a few times in 40 years did I not complete the act because I could tell she was just not really interested.

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Bad sex is when one party isn't excited. It's completely unmotivated.
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I think it has a lot to do with chemistry. I tried out a lot of ladies in the eighties for the vacant Mrs. position and with some of them we just didn't click. It was sad because they were nice gals but they didn't float my boat. I figured if it didn't work before we said I do then it wasn't likely to after. I'm happy to say that the lady I finally married has kept the spring in my step for the last twenty five years and the worse piece of ass she's given me was wonderful! Check it out kids before you buy it because after there's a ring involved you own it and if he or she doesn't rock your world say thank you and run like hell. HHH
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Bad sex is when you feel you've wasted time
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Bad sex is when you feel you've wasted time
Yeah, when you sit up and think, "I could have used that 45 minutes folding laundry." LOL!  That doesn't happen too much anymore, but when our kids were little, it did sometimes. Most of these I went into not really being in the mood, so I guess it was partly my fault. But, sometimes you aren't "in the mood" and you change and it's great, but sometimes your not being in the mood stays with you. Again, that rarely happens anymore.

I have to be honest, IMO, "bad sex" now is if he falls asleep before I come. Sound piggy, but if he does pass out and I'm done, I feel  like"Well, too bad for you, bro. At least I got mine. You snooze, you lose." I have made it pretty clear "Please don't start what you can't finish. It not only hurts my feelings, but it is physically painful, at times."  (I get whatever the female variation of Blue Balls is. And if I "do it myself" then I may not be able to come if we continue the next morning, so you can see my quandary, sometimes.) His excuse? "Sometimes people fall asleep." NO. I have NEVER fallen asleep during sex, so no, I can't relate. I also don't drink, so that may be part of it. *sigh*

I don't like this thread, it's making me upset.


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P-Gell: if I'm getting this right, bad sex maybe the the sex you didn't get. HHH
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It doesn't happen often, Hank, but when it does, I get upset. We had a talk about it, so I'm hoping this is a thing of the past. I think it has as much to do with a little too much to drink (on his part, I don't drink) as the occasional selfish piggy behavior.

Most of the time, with My Man, it's fantastic. IMO, if one of us is "too tired" I'd rather not start at all that night, than have to give up in the middle. JMO.

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Bad sex is when she (NOT Dreamer) said 'just stick it in'...I didnt and we didnt.

I guess I am of the opinion that there is no such thing as 'bad sex'...with the exception of the incident above. I waited a long time before my first sexual encounter and when the frequency of sex diminished (as was often the case with previous relationships) I made the most of the times when I did have it.

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Ok up until I met Roadie I had some really bad sex...Yes, bad enough for me to push him off of me and tell him to go away. Mostly this was with my first husband who had no clue as to how foreplay was done or that women have orgasms too. I don't like intercourse which goes on and on and on and makes me sore to the point I can't get a finger in my own hunny pot. That's just rude. To him, foreplay was pinching my nipple until I slapped his hand away and threatened to break his fingers.  There was no gentle touching or coincidental brush of his hand across my ass to indicate he wanted me..it was more like him rearing his hand back and slapping my ass so hard as to leave a hand print there for two days...IF he actually hit my ass and not my lower spine.
Things are different with my Roadie. We can spent a whole day with teasing foreplay and as evening approaches, we can lounge around in the livingroom and masturbate for each other for awhile. It's awsome.
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Have you ever been with someone who acts like all their buddies are watching? I was once with a guy who was more interested in looking like a porn start than actually satisfy me. I even caught him looking in the mirror while we were at it. That's annoying.
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Bad sex is when one party isn't excited. It's completely unmotivated.

I understand wanting to make your partner happy but it's just so frustrating.


Right-on!  Thinking back, it seems like most of the sex I have had has been one-sided.
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