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Sex Toys for Virgins

Monday, August 25th, 2008

Most people think of sex toys as something a couple would use together or something people use to hold themselves over until they find a partner. But the fastest growing market for sex toys is actually those people who have never had sex.

There are plenty of good reasons for virgins to use sex toys. Sex toys are a great way to learn about your own body and discover what you like before involving another person. Sex toys help virgins take charge of their own sexuality. Because they already know how their body responds to certain sensations they will, most likely, get more out the experience the first time they have sex. Sex toys can also make it easier for virgins to stay virgins, if they are trying to wait until they are married or until they find the right person.

Of course, virgins usually have a tougher time when it comes to figuring out how to buy sex toys, because they probably don’t yet know what makes them come. Experimenting with masturbation before going to buy sex toys is the single best way virgins can help themselves decide with sex toys are right for them. For women the biggest question will be if penetration makes them come, or if clitoral stimulation does. Vibrators are the most popular sex toys with women, but it is easy to buy the wrong one if you don’t already know what will bring you to orgasm.

I just need some advice

Tuesday, July 8th, 2008

I’m worried about my marriage. My wife doesn’t seem to feel anything anymore when I touch her. I hear her at night though, sometimes when I come home from work and she’s already in bed. I work late. I guess I can tell you, that I’m a cop. I worry that it’s all gotten too boring for her. I’ve just been doing the same things for too long perhaps? I’m sorry, I was telling you what I hear, well I know she has a dildo, she would never talk about it but I know she keeps it in her underwear drawer, which oddly enough is where I keep my gun; well my gun in my underwear drawer that is, not hers. But yes, I know she has a dildo, and I hear her at night when I come home quietly, moaning like she use to when we were kids. I love that sound but I only ever hear it now, when she’s alone. I have been thinking for, probably, years now, that I want to get her something to spice things up, some sex toys, or adult toys, and well I am so new to this that I was hoping to get some help, both for what to get her, and how to bring it up and talk to her about it. I thank any of you for taking the time to read this, and God bless.


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