Remind him of his single days with a strip-tease of your own.
Tuesday, September 30th, 2008Once the honeymoon is over, it can be hard to keep the excitement in the bedroom. If your relationship is experiencing “bed-death”, revitalize your sex life by surprising your lover and reminding him of his bachelor days.
Start with a sexy costume, like a French-maid outfit, gypsy dance costume, or even just a feather boa. Before you show your man what you have and how you move it, you should practice with your dancing pole and outfit. It’s a good idea to practice alone and in front of a mirror, so you get comfortable with the equipment and figure out how to get the costume off easily.
Once you’ve practiced a few times, get ready for the big debut by setting the scene. Send your man out to run an errand, so you can prepare. If you are going with a maid’s outfit, get out the vacuum and some body oil. When he comes in the door, let him catch you cleaning your little pole and show him that you know how to um, _oil the furniture_so to speak.
Similarly, if you are going with a school girl outfit, let him find you studying–use a trick like hiding a dirty magazine in a book, so he’ll know you’ve been a naughty, naughty girl. Creating a fantasy will show him that you think he’s worth the effort, and have you both enjoying a second honeymoon from home.