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Roadie
I, too, was a little uncomfortable with the prospect of having a dick in my ass, too. But, I too, felt that it was only fair...I have done Dreamer in the ass, she should be able to do me. We got her a strap-on...and used it. I did not have any uncomfortable, uneasy feelings. But I also did not feel my prostate being massaged. Dreamer did get a nice clit rub...but no prostate rub.

People have called me an ass hole for so many years, maybe my prostate fell out?
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Hi Roadie,

A man's prostate is very similer to a woman's g-spot in the way that it's not always easy to find or stimulate. You (like many other men and women) probably need a larger toy with a curved end to target it. You might have Dreamer give you a manual prostate massage to give you a better idea of what it's like. Then, you can replace the dildo in your harness with something more p-spot specific. Here's a re-post of our directions for prostate milking:

Prostate milking can be done with fingers or toys built specifically for that purpose. Naturally, we like P-Spot toys as they offer more targeted stimulation (and less wrist strain!) However, if you want to hitch a ride on your pointer..here's how:

-Preparations: Trim those nails! Bottle of lube at the ready! And should you have reservations regarding playing with your no-no hole try wearing a thin latex glove. No muss, no fuss.

-Start by slowly introducing a 1 or more lubricated fingers into your anus. Relax! Put on a little Barry White if you must. Push upwards and to the back, like you are pushing your fingers towards your navel from the inside. And for the love of God, take it slow and don't treat yourself like a pinata.

-Do you feel a small, round bulb about the size of a large walnut? You've hit paydirt, my friend. Give the little guy a nice how-do-you-do by massaging him slowly and gently, slowly and gently. And, because the P-Spot is so rich in nerve endings you don't always have to press on it directly. Try massaging the edges around it first. Sometimes less is more.

-If you do it right you might suddenly feel the need to pee (even if you just went.) Don't fight it-roll with it. Keep in mind that correct prostate stimulation improves erection strength. That means you will very well end up with a whopping porn-star boner you may want to show off to friends and family. (Don't.)

Keep it up and the area will be so well stimulated that you may actually ejaculate without masturbating.
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Hank Alvarez
This sounds like an invitation for a finger wave. It's the best of two worlds. Give him head and while you're blowing his mind with pleasure slip a well lubed finger up his ass, find his prostate gland at the base of his penis and massage it. Stroke it gently and stand by for the biggest climax you've ever seen him have. It's wonderful. Try it you'll like it. Hank
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Roadie
This is another thing we are going to work on (see post under Oral Sex)!
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human_fighter
Hi I'm a guy and anal with a partner is one of my biggest fetishes I love it... finally found a girl as into it as I am and its amazing. Heres some pointers...

The butt is a big place compared to your vagina and unlike the g-spot ripples in a woman the "P-spot" in a man does not always correspond to a specific kind of structure in a man's anus. Some times you need to do allot of searching for the right spot.

Ive found a couple of "points of interest" 1.Just inside the bud if you curl your finger towards the mans testicles like a hook so your digging into flesh and rub or pull up you may get a nice reaction... dont go too aggressive... unlike vaginas butts aren't meant for this kind of thing. 2. About mid way between the first "limit" (where you have to start twisting to get any farther because the colon isn't straight) and the anus if you press up towards the tummy/cock and stroke in and out you will hit his prostate. 3. After the first "limit" if your dildo has a curve or bead at the end rub it against the edge of the "limit" very softly this will either feel good or like a cramp so stop immediately if hes not a fan (kinda like cervical bumping).

If theres a pronounced head on the dildo do something I cal Popping which is to inseart and rapidly remove the end of the dildo stimulating the anus... like the vagina the anus is most sensitive at its entrance though that entrance flares out wards after about an inch so it may be easier to practice popping with a larger headed dildo or plug... also while popping it will help the sensation if he tries to resist or clamp down this will prevent popping but cause the plug to "bump" his inner anus try twisting the plug to stimulate that part of him.

DISCLAIMER: these are things that work on me and as I mentioned I loooove anal all men are different and any or all of these techniques may not be pleasurable to him... remember to communicate and to follow directions to the letter when your in there its fairly delicate and you risk some pretty severe types of injuries if your not careful also remember to use phythalate free toys for penetration and for as much of your sexual contact as possible and use lots of lube at least for the "training" period (first while until he figures out how to properly control his anus to accept your toys).

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Tabu Toypro
Awesome contribution, humanfighter!
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human_fighter
It never hurts to help
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DJ in LA
to be honest, as a male, that would scare the crap out of me!
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tw
damn she is one hell of a woman
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