strgsxyman
Hi ladies, in porn you always see the eager girls who can't wait to suck on a dick (or just about anything) that has just been taken out of their (or someone else's) ass.  As a guy with a nasty streak this gets my engine started, but what I am wondering is do any of you ladies like to go to the ATM.
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Tabu Toypro
Just to clarify everyone - ATM = Ass to Mouth. (not automated teller machine)

(and in porn they are eager because it's their job and they're getting paid to act. to act like they enjoy it)
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P Gell
Well, I am sure it depends on the woman, BUT, when one engages in anal sex, there are some safety precautions. The anus and rectum have some very nasty bacteria in them. Washing, bathing certainly help, but some of it is internal, and even enemas won't rid the rectum of all bacteria (and for the woman's health, which this bacteria is needed THERE, you wouldn't want to)

"Ass to mouth" can cause some serious gastrointestinal infections. Usually similar to the "tummy flu." (sometimes worse, depending on the bacteria, the strain and the receiver's immune system.)  Before My Man and I learned all the ins and outs (sorry) of how to have sanitary Anal, I got a few nasty UTIs and vaginal infections from cross contamination, and My Man got very sick for about two days, which may have been food poisoning, but I am almost sure it was from our not being careful in that area.

My Man and I only use anal last, or if we decide to revisit intercourse or a blow job after we have started anal sex, we always wash him with a wet warm washcloth, with clean rinsing soap, and clean his penis carefully before it goes anywhere else.

All fantasies aside, it really is less than healthy to practice ATM, (I am far from being judgmental, I really enjoy anal sex, I just know the score and don't like either My Man or I getting sick) but you will have to do your own research and your woman will need to decide if she wants to take the risk of a gastro intestinal infection, similar to the tummy flu, or a mean vaginal or urinary tract infection, which is a good bet for many people aren't careful about penises, fingers, dildos ect after they have been inserted into anuses and then placed elsewhere without being cleaned.

Some people will use a well lubricated condom for the anal, and then quickly whip it off for some oral, and although this may still cause some bacteria to linger in some areas, is certainly safer than bare ATM.

You asked if any of us "ladies" liked ATM? Me, no. Anal, sure, with My Man, but we have learned the hard way to be clean and careful.
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Hank Alvarez
How much of what really happened was edited out onto the cutting room floor? Hank
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Not for me but you see it alot in heavy bondage scenes. Lots of femdoms that make the slave clean the strapon after they get pegged so it can go both ways.
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P Gell
Hank Alvarez wrote:

How much of what really happened was edited out onto the cutting room floor? Hank


That is exactly what I was thinking when I first read this. What was left on the cutting room floor? The not as sexy "dick cleaning scene" that we all re-enact in our bedrooms regularly.
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PrincessKLS
I would request that the penis get throughly cleaned first, but then again if I use a condom for anal sex, it won't be too much of a problem.
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tuffty



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dreamer60
There's not much I won't do, but ATM is on the top of my NO-NO list. I'm not germophobic, but that's too much for my senses to take.
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Tabu Toypro
It's safest to make anal the last thing on the agenda. Not fun taking a break for the unsexy clean-up. Unless that's your thing...
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P Gell
I don't mind the clean up and carrying on. Some people might. As long as you have the time. And a connected bathroom to the bedroom helps. He'll usually come if we have anal, but sometimes we start it and he can't finish that way, or I have to quit for various reasons (not often, but sometimes your body just says, "OK, enough of that." so we'll do the clean up and carry on thing.

Everyone has to decide what works for them. If you carry on, though, clean up is SO necessary.
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MCL865
As a man. Watching ATM in porn does nothing for me. I could take it or leave it. But, if my GF was to try that with me I would have to decline. It is fine watching someone else do it or maybe a one night stand. I think, I would just cast to much negative judgement if my GF was to do that.
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Hank Alvarez
Here's another two cents worth: the popularity of anal sex that's grown out of the adult media; whether it's just anal play, intercourse of oral rimming, has brought about a new level of anal hygiene. Thank God there aren't any more scenes like in the original "Caught from Behind 1," where Ron Jeremy tells his partner after an anal romp when they're finished to get a towel to clean up. As I recall there was enough discoloration to make it necessary. I think at about the same time, (The mid seventies to the mid eighties when anal sex was a real oddity), you frequently saw, little brown left over specks either on his dick or in the lube or ejaculate dribbling out of her ass. That was gross and I can see where it wouldn't be appealing.
I really think if you invest in a decent douche and you clean yourself out thoroughly, the anus just becomes another pleasurable entrance to the body. If she's healthy, I would suspect it's just as clean and safe as contact with her mouth or vagina. Now if it's a one night stand, that would be different and all bets are off. HHH 
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matureescort
Atm - not for me
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Is this even safe? I'm thinking bacteria.
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