onetoomany
I'm thinking of asking my hubby to read the forum. I wonder what be the pros and cons?
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OTM,

We've had many couples post together in the past. The forums can be a great way to find out new things about your partner and articulate what you both really want. The cons? I really can't think of any.
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Hank Alvarez
If you're not happy in bed then he or she should. HHH
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Nothing wrong with exploring your erotic options if you ask me. What seems more dangerous is when you don't talk about them at all and you repress those desires. I've learned a few helpful things in here and feel like I can share those things with my partner.
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Adriana
Sure, why not?
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Hank Alvarez
I think BOTH parties should belong. I have mixed feelings as to whether they should participate together because they often don't feel the same about things but that could be protected by participating separately, maintaining your anonymity and then discussing what you read and how you feel. Some people's egos are very fragile. One thing is for sure those who don't belong could and probably would learn a lot. HHH 
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onetoomany wrote:

I'm thinking of asking my hubby to read the forum. I wonder what be the pros and cons?


So, did you ask?
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onetoomany
Not yet! He is going through a period of being selfish.. :
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Applejaxter
Tabu wrote:

OTM,

We've had many couples post together in the past. The forums can be a great way to find out new things about your partner and articulate what you both really want. The cons? I really can't think of any.


I can name some cons.
"What are you doing on such a website!? Is my penis not good enough for you?"
"If you're on a sex-talk forum, how do I know you're not looking at porn?"

In a nutshell, DON'T DO IT IF HE'S INSCURE.
It will only cause grief and useless squabbles.
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cathy22
I think right now I'll keep this forum to myself
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Hank Alvarez
I think anyone in a committed sexual relationship who cares about their partner's sexual enjoyment should belong. Unfortunately as time passes I'm afraid we have a tendency to become complacent and we don't put any more effort into our love making than is absolutely necessary. This Forum gives us an excellent opportunity to learn and share ideas from each other that we won't likely get anywhere else. It also allows us to safely explore fresh new ideas on a subject that even our closest friends are often reluctant to comment on. The anonymity here gives us the security to learn from others, offer advice, and still protect or identities and egos while we improve our own sexual repertoire. The real problem appears to be that when it's only one of us participating and you present a new idea or technique to your mate they're often apt to take it as criticism or an accusation that something is lacking. I've gotten a lot more from this Forum than I ever gave. HHH 
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