I've always been into anal but have recently got into stretching for the last year so I want to get a thread started with other fisting or dilation fans -male or female- if there's any of you out there. How did you get into ass play and what got you into extreme anal ? What kind of toys do you prefer and what kind of lube works best for you? My main source of information has been trial and error as well as the internet since I obviously cannot talk about my secret habit with family or friends.
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I have been playing with big anal toys for many years.. I started with fingers, hairbrushes, you know..any crap laying around. Then I got wise and bought a 7" dildo of a standard width. This was good but I wanted more thickness so I moved up to an 8" dildo that is 2" thick (about 5.5" circumference). After looking at a couple of websites I got inspired to go big and now I'm up to a 10" dildo with a 2.5"thickness. It's not as big as the pros but I get a plenty good gape going and I don't want to do any permanant damage.
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The bigger the object the harder I cum, especially from the fist of someone who knows what their doing. Unfortunately they are hard to find so I usually do it myself these days. My first experience with fisting was with my partner who started me out on a few fingers and alotta lube while i stroked my cock. He just slowly worked me open and then added another finger and then another, very slowly. I started pushing into it and at this point I started to dilate and felt the most amazing sensation-very animalistic. I begged him to give me more and then i felt his thumb go in and then he says "My god Ive got my whole hand inside you!!!" There is nothing like the experience of being stretched to the limit.
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Fisting is like the final frontier for me. My wife and I have been working on this for a while. She's gotten to 4 fingers in me but hasn't broken the "whole hand barrier" yet. But not for any hesitation or lack of desire on my part. I love it! Primarily I think she's nervous of doing permenant damage.
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as far as lubes go I like something with alot of "drag" about the consistancy of a paste when I get fisted
oils are too slippery and control is important when your going big. i used to use plain old vaseline and even Crisco sometimes. Then I found out that if you want your partner to wear a glove (and I always do) they cant use those things because they destroy latex. the best alternative ive found is eros power because its more creamy and it doesnt dry out.
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MarshaMarsha!
Does this cause any kind of long term damage? Enquiring minds..
"Love is the answer, but while you're waiting for the answer, sex raises some pretty interesting questions." Woody Allen
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Just the thought of a gorgeous woman exquisitely ramming her fist up my aching butthole is enough to give me a spontaneous hard on. The only issue is that I am completely straight and it's hard finding the right lady for the job. And, no, I don't believe it causes any long term damage if enough lubricant is used and it's done correctly.
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craftyltlbitch
I'll do you if you do me!!! Love it!
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WhiteCastle wrote:




Oh man, you too?
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My GF and I are relatively new to anal fisting and she says that her hand hurts/goes numb while she is fisting me.
She thinks that there is a lot of pressure on her hand and is scared/nervous about thrusting and depth. She also worries about carpal tunnel issues because she works with computers.
Do you have any suggestions to help us achieve more depth with less pain for her?
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Hank Alvarez
I'm having trouble getting my wife past rimming and fingering her ass due to past painful experiences she's had. Can any of you give me suggestions as to how to get started? My past lovers were quite skillful and I never had to pay attention, just enjoy. My wife's a wonderful lover in every other respect but I know she's missing a lot and I'd like to help her get into it. She says if I get her drunk enough she'll let me f--k her in the ass, but I don't want it that way. Any advice on hoe to get started would be appreciated; positions, lubes, techniques, etc. Thanks, Hank
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I believe the pain associated with anal sex is 99% mental..that is to say the mind reacts to what it considers an "invasion" and the body reacts by bearing down which only causes more pain. Relaxation and deep breathing is key. It may take several tries and a great deal of lubricant before she is able to accept penetration. Speaking of lubrication, we used to use Vaseline but now opt for non-petroleum based products like Eros. Eros Power is a good choice for anal because it is thick and doesn't sting like other brands we've tried before like ID Glide.
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Drfist
I’d love to try it 
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matureescort
i love to strech the ass from my Sub...
First with my finger, toys, and so on... 
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