This is simple girl...lay off the bj's...me and my husband has been married for almost ten years,and I had to cut his bj's down to special occassions,or when I want to be nice...christmas,new years,valentines day,anniversary,father's day,his birthday,and about six in between.I know it sounds selfish,but that's what they are being,gettin their's and not letting you get yours.It will work believe me.
my boyfriend is 29, i'm 42, we have been together 7 years. he will go a month before i finally bitch enough and he gives in.i have been performing oral sex on him and has made an excuse to not continue.he says it's not me .that he is attracted to me.he has no problem with an erection. he says it is nothing medical. he acts very embrassed to talk about it. makes excuses for the inactivity.this is horriable way to feel for me and i'm sure him as well.two physcialy fit people should not live this way!