curiuskitten
i want my boyfriend to be really aggressive with me almost mean when we have sex, but when i ask him he starts to but we end really soft and sensual. i love that kind of sex but there are times when i want him to spank me hard and fuck me. he is a nice guy and i wondering if that just not his thing.
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Rosy Glow
wow! 

i think him being a nice guy has nothing to do with it. if he starts "going into character" that's good - you just have to remind him to stay there til the end. just be vocal about what you want and i bet it turns him on enough to keep it up. maybe rent some porn to show him what you like? or hint at it during the day to work him up..."i've been bad today and you need to punish me tonight" cheesy, i know, but you can come up with your own scenario.
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curiuskitten
he really not into porn but he loves talking dirty. i think he just doesn't want to hurt me but i told it's ok what should i do??
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he might not know how to be dominant. Maybe you should get a few S & M  DVDS to give him some examples.
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