JWAKEMEN
Me and my wife have been married for 10 years. Before that we were best friends and she was with someone else.
well her and that other person whole relationship was sex sex sex they use to watch porn together had lots of sex toys ( dildo,anal beeds,) and i know she had anal sex with him at least once. Our relation ship is much better then there's was in over all.  Every where except in the sack. I mean we have sex but no porn some toys. But everytime durring sex when i try the anal thing she says no. And she don't want to watch any porn and no kinky stuff. so i feel that maybe im not doing something right or i just don't turn her on like he did. She said thats not true but is she tring to protect my feeling.  Please help.  Thanks
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Maybe she just doesn't really like porn or anal. Alot of women go through phases and she may have been in an "expiramental" one with her old boyfriend, or, maybe she was just doing all that stuff to make him happy. (Women do crap they don't want all the time for a little attention.) If she liked that type of thing she'd probably be doing it with you too. Does it really bother you?

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daph
i think she is being very honest.... i can imagine she doesnt want to do those things w/ u cuz they remind her of who she used to b w/.....just trust her... she has her reasons
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*lil reb*
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JWAKEMEN
daph wrote:

i think she is being very honest.... i can imagine she doesnt want to do those things w/ u cuz they remind her of who she used to b w/.....just trust her... she has her reasons
;D
  IT BOTHERS ME JUST BECAUSE I THINKING ABOUT IT AND AND THINK TO MYSELF MAYBE SHE DON'T ENJOY SEX WITH ME AS MUCH AS SHE DID WITH HIM. OR HE WAS MORE SEXEY TO HER THE ME. IT PROBLEY ME JUST THINKING TO MUCH.
THANKS
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CuriousManduh
JWAKEMEN, I think daph is right.

Maybe try suggesting things to her. What you've got your mind on and what you would like to try.

I will only to anal with one person, and he's my best friend. He's respectful and gentle and always makes sure that I am comfortable and he waits until I am ready.

Let her know that you respect her and you will be gentle with her.And if she lets you then you need to respect her and be gentle until she says otherwise. And if she doesn't then respect her decision.

Remember JWAKEMEN, she's your best friend, she's your wife. She's not with the other guy... But doing the same sexual acts as she did with another man in her life may remind her and take her back to those times. So just respect her decision, whatever it may be.
The greatest thing you'll ever learn, is just to love... and be loved in return.
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try hving lots of anal sex. with other peoples.
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