Hank Alvarez

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As an age group, what are our likes and dislikes? I'm curious. As a group, are we into anal, oral, vaginal? And what kind of hyjinks are we up to? Missionary, doggie style, standing upright, cowgirl, vigorous spooning? I'm really curious. What?  I'm assuming the ladies of our age group probably aren't into reverse pile drivers like the younger crowd making movies. Do we like mature porn? I do. Do you?  I'd like to ask my friends who are my age but I had to get younger friends as the ones my age are all dead or committed to "the home."

It doesn't stop there. A friend of mine went to the home and when he was eighty-five and got in trouble for eating the pussy on a gal his age. Hell, we're old not dead!

Sometimes I feel like George Burns about a year before he died. A reporter asked him if he really smoked a dozen cigars and drank a dozen martini's every day at his advanced age and he said yes The reporter asked what his doctor thought of that and George said, "I don't know my doctor died a long time ago!"

I'm 67 years young and in no hurry to meet the grim reaper or my maker so I might as well get all I can before they close the lid. This group seems to be the least vocal and from time to time I suspect our visitors who are contributing are under age. So how old are we, what are we doing and how? Isn't anybody else curious? Hell, I am. Hank
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dreamer60
It's easier to talk about what Roadie and I aren't into. Things like hard bondage, golden showers, swapping and swinging are not our cup of tea.
Since we have been together, both of us have returned to a prime time in our sexuality. I guess that has a whole lot to do with throwing away the restraints that were so binding in our previous relationships. Now sex isn't just something to fill a long Saturday afternoon and it doesn't stop once one or both of us cum. We experiment a great deal and renew old interests that had to be laid aside in prior situations due to our former partners lack of interest.
Often our sex is very spontaneous and can happen at the drop of a hat or it can be an all day thing where we tease and foreplay for hours on end.
Having no one around is a big plus for us. We can sit around nude or almost nude and have long sex talks where we ask questions and feel free to answer in an open and honest way. These are times when our sex is most intense for both of us.
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Hank Alvarez
Oh, aren't children great, when they aren't at home? Hank
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Rose55
Hey Hank  Since I have been married for 26 yrs & celebate 17 my desires have changed a lot. I crave the intimacy of a man but since that is not happening I rely on my toys & phone sex with friends. I am 54 & never really thought about sex much during the last 16 yrs but in the last year I have decided I deserved it & was going to get it. I bought a bunch of toys & have actually had sex with a real live man (which did not work out) but am happier than I have been in years. Life can begin after 50 & I am proof positive.
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Hank Alvarez
Please pass the word because it seems that folks think we're supposed to be celibate after forty. If that's the case stop the world because I want to get off. Hank
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marishkah
Hi Hank

My husband and I have been married for the last three wonderful years and our sex life is great. My husband is 52 and I am 30. When we first got together we were not sure about how things would pan out and decided to take things day at a time and always be honest about how we feel and that included sex.

Three years down the line and I know that I can talk to him about anything sexual and know that he will answer me truthfully. If i want to try something new he is always up for it. If he doesnt like it we dont do it again and its the same if he wants to try something.  We never take each other for granted in the bedroom and always make sure the other one is happyily satisfied.

We watch videos together, i wear clothes that he likes and truth be told we cant keep our hands off each other.

So no matter what age you are you can have a trully happy and fulfilling sex life if there is honesty and love no matter what age you are.
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Hank Alvarez
Marishkah:
You two sound like a match made in heaven but then you realize that you're keeping him young. Good luck, Hank
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Olehippy
I think that with age come understanding and hopefully some more tolerance with putting up with others. I guess you can say at least that's is what has kept me going. I have been around the block enough to have calluses and been rode hard and put away wet enough that I got mold growing on me but has it slowed me down, not one bit. Another thing really haven't seen mention in any of the post is dealing with disabilities. The ever present ED is one that many of us older guys have to deal with due to meds we all have to take at one time or the other, but there are others that can me more or a problem to deal with. Serious back problem,  is one that a friend of mine has learned to deal with and another has had hip replacement and with that came some nerve damage that left him with what is called drop foot, and constant pain. You might not think that this is a problem but it can be hard when you have to either stand or even getting up out of a chair is a problem, think what it would be like while having sex, getting muscle cramps that hurt so bad you can not even think more or less keep a erection. Itt takes one heck of a partner to help with something like this and if you are with someone the first time it can scare the hell out of them.

I think the hardest one for woman is losing a breast or both.  Even after reconstruction the mental part is hardest to get over. What will he think when he see me with no nipple and the scares that go along with it. Even woman that had have had C-Sections have this worry.  An no matter how much a man tells her that she is still a sexy beautiful woman, most still have that thought lingering in their minds.

Personally I have never let these types of things bother me. To me it is not only the body you are making love to but more the person inside of it that you want to please. You don't throw a whole apple away because of one little bruise, you just leave that part alone and keep eating the rest of it.  I know this sound bad if you are disabled to the point of not being able to use you legs but what I am saying is if the person on the inside is someone you want to please you can and will still do that no matter what.  Same goes for lost limbs. I've never looked at a person missing a limb and thought of them any different that if they were whole. I don't feel sorry for them to the point of pity but just hope and pray that they can make it as best they can and have nothing but praise for them for trying.

The world would be a much better place if people would look at whats on the inside of a person rather than whats on the outside.
Just a ole hippy at heart, been around the block more that I care to think about. Lived a full life and looking to add to it. Memories are wonderful but making them is much more fun.
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