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About.com Cory Silverberg gives tips on how to become your own sex expert.


"This sex tip is one part of a larger project of writing your own sexual story, it's a good first step which involves defining your own sexual terms. It is not meant to produce a final answer on what sex means for you today and in the future. Rather it offers a snapshot of how you're thinking and feeling in a given moment. It's something you can share with a partner, or just keep for yourself.

Take some time over the next week or two to answer some of these questions for yourself. If it's easy to do, you might want to write it down. If not you can just think about the questions and how you would answer them today. These aren't the only questions to ask, they may not even be the best questions for you to ask yourself, but they're a good start.
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•When I say I want to have sex, I mean I want to…(try to list at least three things)
•Sex for me is…(try to list at least five things)
•When I think about sex, the first thing I think about is…
•When I think about sex, the last thing I think about is…
•Words I am comfortable using about my own body…
•Words I'm comfortable using about other people's bodies…
•Words I like others to use about my body…
•To me great sex is…(try to list at least three things)
•To me bad sex is…(try to list at least three things)

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