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 Do you like sex with the lights on or off? 14  votes

 On, always. I want to see it all and show it all. 2 votes
14%
 It varies. Early in the relationship - off until I'm comfortable. 0 votes
0%
 Minimal lighting only. 3 votes
21%
 Complete blackout please. 0 votes
0%
 Who cares?! We're fucking! 9 votes
64%
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This poll over at the Frisky was inspired by the explanation behind Lady Gaga's latest single. It's about a girl who is embarrassed about her body and only gets animalistic with the lights off when in the sack. So I thought I'd ask you the same...

Do you have sex with the lights on or off? Is lighting a big deal? Like, if you get carried away off into the bedroom to get placed ever so gently on the bed...then you realize the overhead light is on...do you get up and kill it? Turn on a dim lamp? Light a candle? Is it even a big deal?



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Adriana
I used to care about lights but now? Not really. Sex is good right?
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Hank Alvarez
I like subdued lighting but enough to watch my lover because she's a vision of loveliness. Hank
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studley
I said "who cares."  I leave it up to her - sometimes she wants one lamp on (a 7 watt bulb in the base of one of the table lamps for just a soft glow) or sometimes we turn all the lights out just leaving a tiny night light on on the other side of the room that lights a clock face.
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mistress_kay
Gotta go with the last choice. While I prefer somewhat dimmed light (because it's romantic, not to hide), we're really not going to go consider getting up to turn off the lights when we're doing something.
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studley wrote:

I said "who cares."   I leave it up to her - sometimes she wants one lamp on (a 7 watt bulb in the base of one of the table lamps for just a soft glow) or sometimes we turn all the lights out


That's about right. I find most guys don't care and it's us women who want the lights just right in most cases.
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Roadie
I voted for minimal...but thats not really accurate. I think there should be a "Varies" choice by itself...without the early in a relationship tag. It depends on what we are doing. If we are taking pictures or a making a DVD, we need light. If we are just playing around, mostly its just a porno in the background for light. If we are doing some exploring, its more of a direct light thing. See...it 'varies'...
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dreamer60
As my beloved Roadie can tell you, I'm pretty easy to please. I voted who cares...No matter what the atmosphere I'm ready and willing. I like our explorations and the picture taking as well as soft lighting.
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jonsbabydoll
Yeah, I said who cares.

We have sex everywhere, so lighting isn't really our main concern.  Our main concern is fucking!  we've been with each other for a while so we know each other's body. 
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Plum Pudding
Lights on or off doesn't matter to us. There are times when I he or I cut the lights on because we might want to see what's going on.
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P Gell
I like it dark, because I have to concentrate. (LOL!) I like to light a candle or two, but The Man always thinks it's weird.  His dad was a fireman and he thinks a single candle in the bedroom will start a fire. He's better about it in the living room (candles) but after we go to bed, he asked me, like 20 times if I blew out the candles.

I love the "Glow" afterward with the glow of a candle burning. There's just something about it that turns me on.

I really prefer it dark or really dim, it's easier to drift away, for me. My dh likes to leave the light on sometimes, ("I like to see your stuff, baby." that's OK. Only thing is, I always think a kid is going to walk in (they KNOW to knock)  and I get upset and I can't relax.

I have issues.
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