Tabu Toypro wrote:
You should definitely check out this instructional DVD we carry called The Fine Art of Fellatio
. It shows you actual techniques with real people demonstrating.
Couple of pointers we can give:
TEETH: One of the hardest things to learn is to NOT use your teeth, or allow your teeth to get involved. This will be one of the first things you need to focus on getting right. Have him tell you if you're getting your teeth too involved if you can't tell yourself.
EYE CONTACT: One of the sexiest things you can do for him is to occasionally look up into his eyes when you're giving him head. This allows you to gauge how he's receiving it, but it also is incredibly sexy for him to see that you are enjoying worshiping his dick.
POSITIONS: Probably the best position for sucking cock is with him standing or sitting, and you kneeling in front of him. Of course, you can do it with him lying on his back and you kneeling over him on the bed/floor.
CONDOMS: If you are not sure that your partner is disease free, you MUST use a condom while giving head. Though it can be kind of unpleasant (taste and sensation), this is far more preferable than catching a disease, don't you think?
They make flavored condoms
specifically for this purpose.
PRELIMS: You must decide what you want to do when he cums. There is nothing in cum that will make you sick or hurt you in any way. When you know he's about to cum you can remove him from your mouth and finish him off by hand, allowing him to cum on your chest, face, or wherever you want.
The decision on whether to swallow or not is yours to make, however. If you do not want to swallow, then you are certainly not required to. Remember, you can
get STIs from unprotected oral sex.