TDiva
I need advice/instruction on how to give my man great blow jobs, n a technique to swallowing his dick...i watched some porno fliccs but was wanting some more insight to doing the job right...
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well there's a question I can appreciate. Use alot of saliva for starters..nothings worse than a dry mouth.
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Tabu Toypro
You should definitely check out this instructional DVD we carry called The Fine Art of Fellatio. It shows you actual techniques with real people demonstrating.

Couple of pointers we can give:

TEETH: One of the hardest things to learn is to NOT use your teeth, or allow your teeth to get involved. This will be one of the first things you need to focus on getting right. Have him tell you if you're getting your teeth too involved if you can't tell yourself.

EYE CONTACT: One of the sexiest things you can do for him is to occasionally look up into his eyes when you're giving him head. This allows you to gauge how he's receiving it, but it also is incredibly sexy for him to see that you are enjoying worshiping his dick.

POSITIONS: Probably the best position for sucking cock is with him standing or sitting, and you kneeling in front of him. Of course, you can do it with him lying on his back and you kneeling over him on the bed/floor.

CONDOMS: If you are not sure that your partner is disease free, you MUST use a condom while giving head.  Though it can be kind of unpleasant (taste and sensation), this is far more preferable than catching a disease, don't you think?   They make flavored condoms specifically for this purpose.

PRELIMS: You must decide what you want to do when he cums. There is nothing in cum that will make you sick or hurt you in any way. When you know he's about to cum you can remove him from your mouth and finish him off by hand, allowing him to cum on your chest, face, or wherever you want.

The decision on whether to swallow or not is yours to make, however.  If you do not want to swallow, then you are certainly not required to. Remember, you can get STIs from unprotected oral sex.

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Hank Alvarez
In saying "my man" I hope you're in a committed relationship because in oral sex you're going to be ingesting a lot more than maybe you bargained for. If you're exclusive to each other then there's not usually a need for a rubber. Personally I hate those damned things. Here's a couple of other ideas:

If you have much of a gag reflex you might want to try a desensitizing spray about ten to fifteen minutes before hand. It goes way in the back and deadens the area around epiglottis. Some people think it really helps to get "down there" to what's likely to be his virgin territory.

Have you tasted his cum? Some ladies I've known had developed a talent for taking it deep so that when he ejaculates he does it deep in your throat and not in your mouth. There aren't taste buds back there if you're sensitive to his flavor.

Last, you might want to read today's "10 worst blow job mistakes" and take notes! You'll know if you did it right because from now on he'll call you, "Darling." Good luck. Hank
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PrincessKLS
Tabu Toypro wrote:

You should definitely check out this instructional DVD we carry called The Fine Art of Fellatio. It shows you actual techniques with real people demonstrating.

Couple of pointers we can give:

TEETH: One of the hardest things to learn is to NOT use your teeth, or allow your teeth to get involved. This will be one of the first things you need to focus on getting right. Have him tell you if you're getting your teeth too involved if you can't tell yourself.

EYE CONTACT: One of the sexiest things you can do for him is to occasionally look up into his eyes when you're giving him head. This allows you to gauge how he's receiving it, but it also is incredibly sexy for him to see that you are enjoying worshiping his dick.

POSITIONS: Probably the best position for sucking cock is with him standing or sitting, and you kneeling in front of him. Of course, you can do it with him lying on his back and you kneeling over him on the bed/floor.

CONDOMS: If you are not sure that your partner is disease free, you MUST use a condom while giving head.  Though it can be kind of unpleasant (taste and sensation), this is far more preferable than catching a disease, don't you think?   They make flavored condoms specifically for this purpose.

PRELIMS: You must decide what you want to do when he cums. There is nothing in cum that will make you sick or hurt you in any way. When you know he's about to cum you can remove him from your mouth and finish him off by hand, allowing him to cum on your chest, face, or wherever you want.

The decision on whether to swallow or not is yours to make, however.  If you do not want to swallow, then you are certainly not required to. Remember, you can get STIs from unprotected oral sex.




One question, if you use condoms, how can you swallow his cum?
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Tabu Toypro
Well I'd think that if you were using condoms to protect yourself, you would not want to swallow his cum. I'd say wait until you have found "the one" for you. That should be someone who is willing to get tested and stay monogomous with you.
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Hank Alvarez
The good thing about having a regular sexual partner is the freedom to experiment and learn together. If he knows you're inexperienced but want to learn and that this is all based on giving him pleasure he's likely to be much more cooperative.

I've only known a few women that said they liked to get me off that way and really made me believe it. I guess I'm one of the really lucky ones, my better half says she likes to get me off orally and I LOVE IT!

There are a lot of good "how to" videos that should help you get started, and there's a lot to learn. You might want to start out by getting him off by hand to get a taste and see what it's like. I doubt that you'll ever have more control over another human being than when you are giving them a climax because all they can do is lay there and enjoy it. Hank 
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justforfun
My men tell me..they love the way I do it..fortunately I have a lot of experience...so here are some of my secrets

1, start off slow....make him anticipate it......hold his cock in your hand gently while you lick and kiss his thighs and stomach...finger his balls gently...talk to your guy now...since your mouth is free...tell him what is coming next...this will get him real hot and hard...you will notice....use your imagination.....I am going to lick you and suck you until you cum.....I use different things based on the mood

2.Have some oil in a small bowl...I like olive oil the best....take a little and rub it over his cock...then hold it at the base and put in into you mouth....perform a few good sucks...just to keep him hot,,,,lick from the base...up the shaft......pay close attention to the head..especially the side closest to the groin..as you suck use your hand and thumb following your sucking,,,,so you have one smooth motion.....you want everything to flow and be smooth...now here is where you and he can have some fun......I use various techniques..so he never knows what is coming next.....as I am sucking...(.and I mean sucking  ..most guys like a pretty intense suction...tell them to let you know if it is too strong) and pulling my mouth out I twist my hand from the base up...I often use two hands...by resting my elbows on their thighs....so I suck and wrap both hands at the base and wrap and pull my hands up and around their cock as I pull my mouth out...sometimes I will just focus on the head...while holding it.....then i switch it up and deep throat it......I really never gag..as I have trained myself not too...and can get the whole thing in...it took some practice though....I used to gargle with some viscous lidocaine...I do not need that anymore...do not forget the balls and to massage that spot between the balls and anus...most guys like that......tell your partner you take requests...they like that too.....if they like what you are doing they will have none and can barely speak because they are feeling too good.....you can also use your breasts and slide their cock between them....I also like to sit on their thigh so they can feel your pussy on their leg.......they like it when you take control..at least most do...I say lay back you are in for a treat...try changing positions  lay on your side and lay him on his side and suck that way...see how your mouth and his cock feel this way...experiment and have fun...do not forget to add a bit of oil....it feels so slick and good...these are just a few and kinda hard to explain...I have more ideas..but this will get you started...if you can please your man orally....they knock down your door to get to you...do not forget to sit on his face and suck his cock at the same time....they love this too!!!
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What is viscous lidocaine? Nice work, by the way.
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keeleybest
by the way cool topic
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jada
As i understood you wish to learn the technique of swallowing the dick. It requires much training. Start with a banana (not pealed), try to swallow it as deep as you can. You should avoid vomiting. So open your mouth widely but don't keep in strain. Besides, your throat should be on the vertical line with dick (or banana). It is hard, but it is possible. Little by little and you will manage it. I did.
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