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My girlfriend and I have a healthy sex life, but she's always been self conscious of certain parts of her body and I was wondering what I can do to bring her out of it.  She has a great body; 117lbs, great shape.

But, she's extremely self conscious about her anus.  She doesn't want me to see it...at all.  This makes trying new positions hard for her, as she doesn't want to expose herself...i.e. during doggystyle she'll arch her back just a little so it isn't as visable.  And don't get the wrong idea, it isn't me...we were both virgins.

I just want her to be able to let loose so we can experiment more with positions, etc.  Sex recently has gotten a little boring for me.  She's happy with the same moves, but I need something else.  And, here's the kicker, when she knows that I can't see her anus, gawd, the sex is incredible.  If for some reason all the lights are out when we have sex, it's totally different.  She'll switch it up like a pornstar.  She's a ballet dancer, very flexible...the possibilities could be endless...

Someone please give some relevant information that goes beyond the typical "just communicate better, blah blah".

Thanks

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If sex is incredible when you can't see her bum, then let it be incredible! When does it get boring?

If she's ok with doggystyle, then her behind is already halfway exposed. I understand she's trying to hide it, but does she ever let you touch her cheeks? Maybe a gentle spank or caress coupled with a compliment?

Is she ever on top? Maybe take a cheek in one hand and tell her what an incredible figure she has. I think in your case, it's going to have to be gentle persuasions from you to convince her that she is a beautiful girl with a beautiful body and that you love every inch of it.

Maybe something happened in her childhood that has impacted this phobia. As long as you are coercing her in a non-derogatory way, I think you can help her love her body too. Good luck!

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