rebelpridetat2ed
Ok, so my husband and I have been together for 5 years.... we have sex toys and I am not afraid to do anything in bed....once it gets started I will act like a freakin porn star. But now my husband says it has gotten stale and he wants me to start the sessions and take over. Everytime I think about throwing him to the ground and molesting him I get nervous and cant do it! what the hell! I just cant get past this! I would love to wear the sexy outfits and role play and start thinks like I have to have him this very second but I get nervous and cant. is there anything that can help me with this issue? or do I need to just get over it. I mean what do you guys think when a girl just takes over?
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Adriana
I can understand. Usually my husband initiates and one time when I felt like being more aggressive about him I pushed him onto the bed and... he stubbed his toe really bad! Totally didn't do anything for my confidence.

I think when it comes to confidence things like this you just gotta "fake it until you make it" That is, pretend you're confident enough and soon you will be.
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Rosy Glow
I'm not a guy, but am aggressive. Some guys loooove it. Others, not really. Your guy requested it? And you've already been a 'into it like a porn star' so what's the hold up? Sounds like you just have the jitters. But, how - you've been together 5 years? If you're not comfortable doing it, tell him.
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rebelpridetat2ed
Well like I said, he always start the sex and stuff and once we are into I will do anything, but he wants me to be the aggressive starter, and i really dont know what to do lol. I have never had to start it! It is jitters but how do you get over it. And yes he did ask me to do it. I went a bought some cool stuff on this site and I am really into toys and stuff so I am hoping that I can just get over it an do it!
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How can a "Rebelpridetattood" girl be shy? With that handle I'd think you'd throw down like a motorcycle mama
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Practice makes perfect! After a few tries you'll get over your stage fright. We all have to start somewhere..
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gfd333
do anything, but he wants me to be the aggressive starter, and i really dont know what to do lol. I have never had to start it! It is jitters but how do you get over it. And yes he did ask me to do it.
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Tabu Toypro
gfd333 wrote:

he wants me to be the aggressive starter, and i really dont know what to do lol. I have never had to start it! It is jitters but how do you get over it. And yes he did ask me to do it.


Get yourself an aggressive outfit to wear - that might help to put you in the role playing mood. Take a look at our Bondage and Fetish wear section for some ideas. Add an accessory like a flogger or some handcuffs, or even get yourself a little cop outfit and arrest him then take advantage of him.

Try to get your idea together before it all gets started. That way you can practice your voice or moves or whatever it is you have in mind. Check out the post on Dirty Talk if you need some help vocalizing yourself.
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Get all dressed up and make him get down on his belly and crawl to you as you sit on your throne. When he gets to his destination, tell him to get on all fours like a dog then spank him. You should use an open palm, and swing from your shoulder to ensure a good, hard spank while maintaining control. To get his ass good and red, try canning him with Cat O’Nine Tails whip. He'll love it.
If he is weak and needs help staying on his hands and knees, make him balance on an exerciseball. If he lies on his belly on the ball, he can pick his arms and legs up and work those weak ab muscles while you punish him for that beer gut. Get that ass dripping wet with massage oils, and he’ll know he’s been a bad boy.
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