She pulls out a dildo thats 4 inches longer than you are? Not that Im a needle dick or nothing (7 inches) normal I guess but Im not a donkey either. you see these porn guys and go "HOLY SHIT" if she wants that Im in trouble.
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K for Chaos
It's honestly not all about the size! My current boyfriend is smaller than my ex but the sex is better now because he knows what works me and uses it. Besides, porn guys are ridiculously big and for tiny girls (me!) that would break them!
I glow in the dark, it's a sexy redhead thing.
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If she prefers her sex toy to you you are doing something wrong.
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Adriana
Quinn179 wrote:

If she prefers her sex toy to you you are doing something wrong.

Well, this is pretty rude but could be on to something.

I agree it may not be the size. Maybe she likes that toy just because it does something like pulsate which her other toys don't. And even if she does prefer the size some times, she may not all the time.
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HappilyHorny
my boyfriend is smaller than the average size.. but yet he is amazing in bed.. size doesnt matter but sometimes i like to use my
vibrator it just gets straight to the point when im not in the mood to get fully naked and sweaty.. so guys dont take it personal!!
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naughtyeliot
Let me preface this by saying I am a virgin and cannot compare sex toys to men, nor do I think I would as it's hugely insulting to men. Having said that, I do enjoy big dildos (and even smaller ones), but size matters little to me when it comes to a flesh-n-blood man. I'm far more interested in personality. Like others have pointed out, it's not all about the size but how you use it. I've known women who actually dislike anything bigger than average, length-wise. I think a lot of women prefer girth to length anyway. Having said all that, any guy who wants to be with me has to be cool with sex toys, even if they're thicker and/or longer than him. Being secure in what you've got is a turn-on.

~Eliot
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human_fighter
I guess the best way to look at it as a sex aid it's not anything against you she just likes using toys to gove the extra zing... I mean if she whipped out a one foot dildo during love making would that really frighten u? To me shes sharing something with you thats in some cases way more intimate than just letting you fuck her shes showing you how she gets her self off... allot of girls don't even admit to masturbating... at least around here.
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Adriana
^ I don't know. If I pull out a toy like that in the middle of sex, he's obviously out in the cold and I think it means something.
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