ireallywanttoknow
Lately my wife has been "joking" about me going down on her after I have had an orgasm inside of her during a lovemaking session.  She has even gently pushed my head down toward her pussy.  I regularly eat her out and have no problems doing that.  This is something new.  I am not sure if she is really joking or if she really wants me to clean her up.  I don't know if that is a turn on for her or if the thought of me eating my own sperm is making her hot.  When I ask her about it she says she is only joking and she actually thinks it is discgusting and doesn't want me to do it yet she still "jokes" about it.  I am torn.  I love this woman enough to try it if it is going to get her off but I don't want to take the chance that I may be truthfully grossing her out.  I don't know what to do.
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Baddaboo
Well do you really think she's trying to give you a hint? (Or are you just projecting your own desires.) I say just go for it and see what happens.
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ireallywanttoknow
I would think she is trying to give me a hint.  I started to go down once and she grabbed my head and pulled me back up before I got all the way down.
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ireallywanttoknow
I forgot about another time too.  She had given me oral sex and really wanted me to kiss her after I came in her mouth.  She had never tried to get me to do that before.  Still she insists that she is joking and it is gross when I have asked her about it.
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Wow that sounds like some mixed signals there...
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ireallywanttoknow
I think she may be having a hard time with it in her mind.  It may really be turning her on but she may be having a hard time admitting it to herself or to me.  I am still unsure about what to do.  The more I think about it the more I think the next time she jokes about it I am going to go for it again and see what happens.
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My hubbie loves for me to swallow! So do I, but sometimes he tastes great and sometimes not so great. Diet really changes the flavor. When he's been eating alot of garlic and he tells me to drink it sometimes I joke with him and say "YOU first!"
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K for Chaos
I would probably just straight up ask her, or just do it anyway. If she doesn't like it just go brush your teeth. I think its just in her head
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likeithard
may be you should go for it and try to see her reaction like every one says she probably gets turn on!!
ireallywanttoknow wrote:

Lately my wife has been "joking" about me going down on her after I have had an orgasm inside of her during a lovemaking session.  She has even gently pushed my head down toward her pussy.  I regularly eat her out and have no problems doing that.  This is something new.  I am not sure if she is really joking or if she really wants me to clean her up.  I don't know if that is a turn on for her or if the thought of me eating my own sperm is making her hot.  When I ask her about it she says she is only joking and she actually thinks it is discgusting and doesn't want me to do it yet she still "jokes" about it.  I am torn.  I love this woman enough to try it if it is going to get her off but I don't want to take the chance that I may be truthfully grossing her out.  I don't know what to do.
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Tabu Toypro
This is called Snowballing, and it's fairly common in porn. One partner takes into their mouth the semen of another person, and then 'swaps' or passes it to the mouth of another through kissing.

In a heterosexual context, Snowballing is when a man receives his own semen from the mouth of his female partner, into which he has ejaculated. This may appeal to a male who wishes to adopt a passive or submissive role.

I think if she's "jokingly" brought it up more than once then she actually wants to try it. Maybe you should rent a porno with this type of act and see how she reacts.
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ireallywanttoknow
give me the name of some of those movies to look for and I will give that a try
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Tabu Toypro
You know, I was thinking about your situation again and here's something to ponder...It may not even be about eating or tasting your semen. Did she say (in the joke) or have you asked if that was what she meant? Because honestly, maybe you've had your orgasm but she hasn't had hers. And if you've read our forum long enough, you'll know there are oodles of women out there who do not orgasm during sex. Ever! Maybe that's her way of asking for a little oral play so she can get hers too? It certainly wouldn't require much since she'd be warmed up and you wouldn't have to actually suck semen out. Just a thought.
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Adriana
Tabu Toypro wrote:

This is called Snowballing, and it's fairly common in porn. One partner takes into their mouth the semen of another person, and then 'swaps' or passes it to the mouth of another through kissing.

In a heterosexual context, Snowballing is when a man receives his own semen from the mouth of his female partner, into which he has ejaculated. This may appeal to a male who wishes to adopt a passive or submissive role.

I think if she's "jokingly" brought it up more than once then she actually wants to try it. Maybe you should rent a porno with this type of act and see how she reacts.



But he wasn't quite talking about snowballing.


Either way, I think she is sending mixed signals. Tell her you have absolutely not problem with it - if that's the case - or go for it. If she is actually sending a hint, then you got it. If not, you'll know. It may be very likely that  she wants to try it but is torn herself.
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ireallywanttoknow wrote:

Lately my wife has been "joking" about me going down on her after I have had an orgasm inside of her during a lovemaking session.  She has even gently pushed my head down toward her pussy.  I regularly eat her out and have no problems doing that.  This is something new.  I am not sure if she is really joking or if she really wants me to clean her up.  I don't know if that is a turn on for her or if the thought of me eating my own sperm is making her hot.  When I ask her about it she says she is only joking and she actually thinks it is discgusting and doesn't want me to do it yet she still "jokes" about it.  I am torn.  I love this woman enough to try it if it is going to get her off but I don't want to take the chance that I may be truthfully grossing her out.  I don't know what to do.


So, what was the outcome?
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Hank Alvarez
I'm sure there are a lot of variations on that. I can't remember the issue, but it wasn't that long ago, and I'm sure it was in the playboy adviser column that they talked about "a hot shot." It's where a woman performs fellatio and saves a little  of his semen and crawls back up on him and gives it back in a real wet kiss. It sounded erotic when we read it and it was. It's one of those things you just have to experience and decide whether or not you liked it and want to do it again. I think it was on the TV show "laugh in" that they said, "Try it you'll like it." What have you got to lose? Hank 
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